Topic: help needed please
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Fri 05/22/09 07:30 PM
i am new to the site can someone tell me how yo use instant messaging please and is it possible to have private one on one instant chat conversations?

romeo1975's photo
Fri 05/22/09 07:31 PM
u simply hit the message button on your scrollbar, and if the person chooses to accept your im, then you are 1 on 1 with that person

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 05/22/09 07:33 PM
they always have the option of not accepting to talk to you. Good luck on this site.

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Fri 05/22/09 07:51 PM
sorry but i cant seem to find where i need to do this, could you be a little more specific please oops

jonny63's photo
Fri 05/22/09 07:52 PM
Should this be in "Help" section?think

jonny63's photo
Fri 05/22/09 07:59 PM
How do I send an instant message to someone?
Sending an instant message is simple — just go to their profile, and if they are online, you'll see a button labeled "Instant Message" near where their friends are displayed. Just click on that button, and a chat session will be opened.

Jill298's photo
Fri 05/22/09 08:02 PM
Edited by Jill298 on Fri 05/22/09 08:03 PM
Alot of people have theirs turned off... like me. So when you look at my profile you don't even get the option to send an instant message. You also have to fit their 'criteria' in order to email or IM someone. Like they can put you can only message them if you're NOT looking for an intimate encounter.

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Fri 05/22/09 08:17 PM

sorry but i cant seem to find where i need to do this, could you be a little more specific please oops


go to that persons profile...if they have instant messaging turned on you should see a button....click it!!!!