If anyone wants to put up revealing photos, they could be asking for
trouble. After all, we don't really know one another personally, do we?
Admittedly, it's only done in fun, in some cases, but ladys, be careful,
you never really can be sure who's not taking part in the forums but
just looking and taking note.

Tis true, my Wifee!!!

You are indeed Beautiful!

(That's why I married you. LMFAO)

Well said, Tom!!!

If I was interested in meeting a man here I'd rather have him
judging me by my posts and what I have to say, not by my looks
on half naked pictures

Ok kitten how many you got now? lol

invisible I think most of us would like that but in todays world
most will judge by the pic at first

<<<not me but I love this pic

Shadow -- I see what you're saying about the "piece of meat" thing, and
I do agree that there is an element of that involved.

On the other hand, I think there is a way for a man to respond to a
picture like that without coming across as perverted or sexist or just a
total creep.

I guess it's a fine line for some of these guys, the ones who don't have
the verbal skills to express admiration or appreciation without becoming
overly suggestive or just plain rude.

I think where some of the ladies get annoyed is in the fact that we all
promote this idea that we have a JSH community here, and they feel like
they should be safe in having a little fun with a "revealing" pic. And
then some idiot sends them a nasty e-mail and they feel like "these guys
are just like everybody else," which is surely NOT the case here, but
who can blame them for feeling that way after they've been "approached"
by these morons a few times?

And if you just say, "Well, don't post pictures like that," then I think
you get into the risk of stifling self-expression and creativity. And
I'm totally against that sort of stifling.

There's never going to be a real solution to this thing until SOME
people stop seeing even slightly suggestive pics as invitations to
unwanted solicitations.

They're just pictures, guys, it doesn't mean she wants you to jump on
her....!

you are right shadow
but is that bad??
i have to be attracted to the person...
i have dated guys overweight etc- i
fall in love with the personality, but
they cannot be extremel unattractive
by my standards since I am the one choosing for me.

I agree with you

I understand what is being said here and I do agree, but I am also
guilty of posting a pic of my boobs..I apologize if it is offensive to
anyone, it was done as a joke. But honestly, the pic of me like this or
my other main pic doesn't get guys attention. But last night I proved it
by posting a regular pic of me in the cute or gorgeous and it took
almost 2 hours for an answer but my boobs got a response in less then
two minutes. I changed the pic back right away anyway.

Again I apologize if I offened anyone.

In a way you are right Lex, I receive these mails regardless, not as
many maybe, but I still get them

Yes men will be they way they are and women have it rough on any site.
Like I said there is nothing wrong with wanting to feel sexy or to have
some of the attention But my whole issue was Why do women come on the
forum noing that there pic is sped eagle and complain about how men talk
about that pic.....

Were all here to enjoy the friendships we have on her well from what I
see in the forum but I also think there isa way to be sexy with out over
doing it

This cracks me up the whole post!!!


I have a delete button .....

Sorry to all who are having a bad day.



AWWWWWW

shucks hope it gets better .....

Well I came a little late to this post but here are my thoughts on this.
Anyone can display any pictures here but that just show how much he or
she are exposing themselves or risking themselves. Many people put
revealing pics on here and then complained about obscene messages they
received. In the first place, why ask for trouble. If you want to
display your body because you are proud of it, do it graciously not in a
demeaning way to yourself because your pictures, tell a lot about who
you are and what are you looking for here.

^^^ Well,that's certainly more than I wanted to see right now...lol.

Having said that, I've found it doesn't matter WHAT you wear in your
pics on the profile, you STILL get the "sex" emails. Hell, that's all
most men are capable of thinking about, it seems. And all they care
about. So...what difference does it make what the hell you wear in the
pic?

Besides, why does a woman showing she has a sexual side mean "come and
get it?" Now, I'm talking about "sexy" pics, I'm NOT talking about
"trashy" ones. There is a difference.

Why is it that men LOVE women for their sexuality...but HATE them for it
at the same time? If you show too much, if you say too much, if you do
too much, if you sleep with a guy on the first date -- hot DAMN! He
struck gold!

he thinks you're PULENTY good enough to screw, but to have as a partner?
GF/wife/whatever? EWWW! Yuk, tooey!!

He'll insert HIS body parts in you, put HIS hands and HIS mouth all over
you, fawn all over you in order to get in your pants and, when he does,
considers you worthless as anything "but" a piece of ass?

This double standard crap is getting beyond old.

I want to see more pics.................

have never complained that I know of...

my delete buttons works swell!!!!!!!!!