Topic: Single dad . Does it sound like a lie ?
shonno's photo
Tue 05/19/09 10:32 AM
I am a single dad of a 3 year old son. His mother passed away in December of 08. I wonder if this story turns women away like they think i am lying to achieve sympathy. I wouldn't even tell it if the question didn't always come up. Maybe the reluctance in my tone makes me sound like a liar . What are your thoughts?

justme659's photo
Tue 05/19/09 10:39 AM
OK, here is my 2 cents worth. First are you telling them this on the internet? If you are, remember this, Alot of folks are quite cynical on the internet. Take all comments with a grain of salt. If people think you are just trying to gain sympathy, and it bothers you, move on to a person that doesnt give you that impression.

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 05/19/09 10:43 AM
I have heard the widower line b4...I am not saying you are lying for I do in fact belive you...but there are some out there that prey on others...I am sorry for your loss...

shonno's photo
Tue 05/19/09 10:52 AM
Not the internet. A few different interests that i have met. i mean i'm not holding a big sign. but a single guy with a son that young raises the inevitable questions When they hear this their attitude seems to change. I cant keep it from them forever. if they are turned away by this they arent the right one anyway. thank you

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 05/19/09 10:58 AM

I am a single dad of a 3 year old son. His mother passed away in December of 08. I wonder if this story turns women away like they think i am lying to achieve sympathy. I wouldn't even tell it if the question didn't always come up. Maybe the reluctance in my tone makes me sound like a liar . What are your thoughts?


I'd hate to be you right now. 3 years+9 months+time dating+unknown married time+loss of a loved one, and you're ready to date in less than 6 months? I don't think so. they're doing themselves and you a really big favor.

moonlight_ride62's photo
Tue 05/19/09 11:02 AM


I am a single dad of a 3 year old son. His mother passed away in December of 08. I wonder if this story turns women away like they think i am lying to achieve sympathy. I wouldn't even tell it if the question didn't always come up. Maybe the reluctance in my tone makes me sound like a liar . What are your thoughts?


I'd hate to be you right now. 3 years+9 months+time dating+unknown married time+loss of a loved one, and you're ready to date in less than 6 months? I don't think so. they're doing themselves and you a really big favor.


that is a bit harsh do you not think...some people do not like to be alone..I hope you do find someone to date and love both you and your son...best of luck...

shonno's photo
Tue 05/19/09 11:11 AM
I ddnt say that we were together when she died .

no photo
Tue 05/19/09 05:24 PM
I say put it out there.

Honestly there is nothing wrong with it. People do die. They divorce etc. No one wants to be the rebound and some people are scared for stupid reasons, however if you're open and honest... there is no reason she shouldn't be.