I feel stuck.

I'm pregnant w/the baby of the man I love,

Sounds great until I wonder if he loves me too?

What could I do?

Leave?

Be miserable?

It seems to be chore for him to spend time with me...

Is it hormones? I don't know...but I know that I'm tired of feeling like
a piece of ass....

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr I can't explain..nevermind...lol

Hun you've got alot of hormone's runing all outta wack. All emotional
and this is all new for you. Not planned I asume. I'm sure he's still in
shock mode. I see you have stepped up to the plate and have stood firm.
It might take a little time for him to come around. Do you try and
include him in decision making? Even something as easy as picking out a
pice of clothing etc,. Try to include him more in a loving way. I know
it's hard as hell cause you just wanna yell and say wake the Fk up and
lets get on with this. Hope you get to feeling a little better. Don't
forget to take care of you, stress doesn't do you OR the baby any
good.

Song, JUST BE YOU!!!! Be inlove with what is moving and growing
inside you, and know THIS BABY, is with you ALWAYS!!!
Loving you, trusting you, and will be, BORN TO YOU!!!!!


LIFE will once again hold you in its arms, and let you feel
love in your heart!

song.....
these are normal questions a pregnant woman has... every time you get
pregnant you will ask the same questions....
you just have to really have faith in him and yourself and you will know
deep in your heart what the true answers to your questions really are

I cried the entire time I was pregnant with my 1st. What business did I
have being pregnant? Was I insane? How could we afford a baby? My
daughter's 17 now. I hope you feel better.

♥Smile!♥
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song

Nicely said Terry!!!!

Love ya song

♥Smile!♥
(`'•.¸(`'•.¸ ¸.•'´) ¸.•'´)
«`'•.¸.¤ HUG! ¤.¸.•'´»
(¸.•'´(¸.•'´ `'•.¸)`' •.¸)
¸.•´ HAPPY * + * *
( `•.¸Hey you! Its "♥"!•+ * *
`•.¸ ) Just doin’ a quicky.*. . * +
¸.•)drive~by sprinklin a 'lil'. + * *
(.• hug dust on your page. * + * *
*´¨)♥♥♥ ♥XoX♥♥♥♥* + * * + * *

Song just Know there are those out here that love you no matter what you
may have done or may be going through.I'll always be here for you babe.

Song, you're one of the sweetest ladies I've read since being here. You
are quite special and I truly hope he comes around. My son wasn't born
until I was 31. Had to get the oats sown. What you are going through, is
not only a miracle, but magic. I wish you the best, baby!!!

song yea u are normal....and i think a guy gets nervous when preparing
to have a child too....once your baby is here im sure he will be joyful
once again...

Song:

its not all about Mr. hormones anymore
It's all about your WONDERFULL BABY...

Thats The Blessing..

Song, here is a little bit of advice that may help you and your man. Far
to often, after being in a relationship we all tend to not talk, as in
the begaining, that is when we all need to get back toothe basics of
communication. Sit down with him, for about an hour, turn off the TV or
anything else that would disrupt the setting and talk too him, tell him
of your concernes and let him tell you about his true feelings about
your pregnamcy, after all it is his unborn child too. And here is the
kicker, when you tell him your concernes, remember, talk in a calm
voice, no yelling or finger pointing, then when it is his turn too tell
you his concernes, listen, do not interupt him, as he should not do to
you, while you are talking, you will be surprised, how this can help,
when each of you takes the time too listen too each other and I mean
realy listen.It would be a good idea, if you both cna set time aside,
just for talking and leistening, at least once a week.



This is my opinion, but then I am only a guy. What do I know.

Wolf, you said it just fine.
Everything in life has to be earned, it always take blood, sweat & lots
of tears; in some fashion.
Just because it is love, doesn't make it easy.
Hardest thing I have ever done.

Songbirrd,

Girl come to Indiana and I will take care of you and the little
one...lol Really, if he loves you that is only something you can
answer. If he does not have time for you now will he have time for you
when the little one is born? Take time to look at the whole picture and
where you see you guys in the future. These are serious questions that
have to be looked at.

Just from chatting with you I can say that you are a great person and
deserve the best.

Hope I have been of some help.

song...it is normal to feel that way. I have 4 kids and believe me,
every pregnancy was a rush of hormones and mood swings. So it normal.
Just be happy and think of the blessing from God. Not many people is as
lucky to be able to have babies.

Beth----honey you will be fine. Re-read the message from WolfSpirt he
is a smart man. The way to answers is to take time to communicate with
the dad and ask the questions that are bothering you.

If he choses not to be a part of yours and the baby's life, know that
you have enough love in you to make up for it. Be strong and if you
need my shoulder to cry on, drop me a line.

Hi songbird,

You are getting some good responses here. You are experiencing a lot of
hormone rush so it is good to take it slow. You may feel a little
different in an hour or two.

May I suggest that some form of joint counseling with someone who
specializes in relationships could help you both in communicating your
thoughts and needs at this critical time. Sometimes this can be very
beneficial -

All the best,

s1owhand

Song....

Things will get better, I'm sure of it. Your emotions and hormores run
rampant when your pregnant. Try to take time for yourself, do things for
you, things that make you peaceful. I like taking walks in the park

All I know, is that it will be better, get better.

Hey Beth, you sure you're preggy?

Oh, Im jealous!