Ive been single for over 2 years,and im sick of coming home from work to a empty house,im kinda shy and really dont date much What should i do to find a good women besides joining date sites

good question

9:37 pm November 27th, 2009

Let friends know you are looking. They may have friends for you to meet. Join a gym, a book club, take dance lessons, etc.

Step out of your comfort zone.

Move to Texas

Love awaits you at Mutual Match!!

I've been single for 5 years except for a brief 5 month relationship last year. It's not always ideal but enjoy being single!

When the right person comes along that compliments your life rather than complicates your life, you will appreciate her that much more.

Don't force yourself into a relationship for the sake of lonliness. There are so many ways to fill your time, and make new friends. You can volunteer, or join a club. Spring and summer are the best times to venture out and try new things! Join a bike club or a hiking club.

I'm taking golf and tennis lessons this year to broaden my horizons. My first golf lesson is this Wednesday!

Find out where the girls hang out in your area. Could be malls, bowling alleys. Get over your shyness and be creative, walk through a mall with a sign saying "I don't know how to shop, teach me!" or at a bowling ally wear a sign that says "I don't know how to bowl, teach me!" Walk outside a YWCA wearing a sign that says "I can't swim, teach me!"

Stay active in the forums here and see what happens.

If all else fails, try Pats suggestion of Mutual Match! 99,999,999 matches can't be wrong!

Good luck guy!

And...often it comes when you least expect it or have stopped looking.

well you can't use "lollipops" that's been done and it worked for me.... I have been single for 7 years. and just dating here or there. But I met someone right here yes this very spot--------------->X


all I had to do was be active in these forums and oops there she was.. we stalked each other and now she is coming here to where I live in Ohio... yes my friends you too can have happiness. And all you have to do is send 1 thin dime , 2 small nickles, i/10th of a dollar to Del Rio Texas and the gold buckle of the bible belt.


seriously I have met someone here and I have only been on here for 6 months almost to the day.

Best advice I can give to any guy is, Don't try TOO hard. Confidence is key, if you appear desperate you wont attract the right kind of woman. Just have fun here in the forums and try to avoid posting threads like this one.

someone mentioned it earlier..do things differently..if your shy..do things that non-shy people do...easier said than done though...switch it up...expecting different results by doing the same thing isn't realistic -- quote from somebody....last ditch option -- significantly reduce your expectations..that usually works for me every time I'm in a rut...quite frankly, there's a bunch of other girls that want what you want...but you know, beggers can't be choosers...or can they??


roco

Get a pet in the mean time..............

You need to look and now demand someome be there, have a mate is a gift we give ourselves.

Be a good man.

I can totally identify with this -- I've been trying to find a way to address this problem since last August and I'm completely stumped.

Dating sites don't work for me, because the kind of person I'm interested in just doesn't use dating sites -- I recently moved to a place where I don't know anyone, and all of my old friends (the way I used to meet people) have reached the point in their lives where they have no more single friends, acquaintances, etc., who I could meet.

I don't drink and I don't go to bars, so that's not an option.

All I can say is good luck, and if you run across a strategy that works, let me know!

No excuses for me, if I am alone it is only my fault and nobody else.

Used to blame the world and every little things i could think about but now i know that i can only blame myself.

If i stay home alone it is my choice, if I do not talk to woman it is my choice, if I only find the wrong women it is my fault, if I use all the possible reason I can as an excuse not to a date a woman it is my fault.

I used to think there was no woman for me, now i know there is just have to find her.

come now children of the beast
be strong and shout at the devil

Does he have any single female friends?