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Topic: Can you be TOO good to someone?
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Tue 05/12/09 12:24 PM
Can you be so good to someone they take you for granted?what

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Tue 05/12/09 12:25 PM
in a word YES!the b@stard!! grumble

DOTTIE's photo
Tue 05/12/09 12:29 PM
if they are taking u for granted in your eyes then i would take ....all my good ....somewhere else.waving

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Tue 05/12/09 12:30 PM
Perhaps

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Tue 05/12/09 12:31 PM
yes, I think the phrase "give some one an inch and they will take a yard" is so true.

It is unfortunate but it seems to be human nature for some...

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Tue 05/12/09 12:34 PM
Yes, this has been my theme song in many past relationships:

Don't you love her madly?
Wanna be her daddy
Don't you love her face?
Don't you love her as she's walking out the door

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Tue 05/12/09 12:45 PM

Can you be so good to someone they take you for granted?what
:smile: yes:smile:

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Tue 05/12/09 12:52 PM


Can you be so good to someone they take you for granted?what
:smile: yes:smile:


then shold we all be assholes?ohwell

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Tue 05/12/09 12:54 PM
yes , anyone can be taken for granted.. remember "love is blind... not to mention deaf and dumb.

Monier's photo
Tue 05/12/09 12:56 PM

Can you be so good to someone they take you for granted?what


I think people take others for granted regardless when they become comfortable with them, just to different extents.

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Tue 05/12/09 12:57 PM
Edited by EZ4Sheezy on Tue 05/12/09 12:58 PM

yes, I think the phrase "give some one an inch and they will take a yard" is so true.

It is unfortunate but it seems to be human nature for some...


I thought it was, "Give someone and inch and they think they're a ruler"

And yeah, I am the poseter child of being taken for granted

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Tue 05/12/09 12:59 PM


yes, I think the phrase "give some one an inch and they will take a yard" is so true.

It is unfortunate but it seems to be human nature for some...


I thought it was, "Give someone and inch and they think they're a ruler"

And yeah, I am the poseter child of being taken for granted


but then along comes the metric system that blows that theory all to hell LOLbigsmile

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Tue 05/12/09 12:59 PM
yes and you can actually turn them way off by making them think you are clingy or too whatever.... some people can not be pleased no matter what you do.... it only makes you feel bad, but I think this is part of some peoples "game" to never be satisfied so you keep trying and trying....


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Tue 05/12/09 01:02 PM

yes and you can actually turn them way off by making them think you are clingy or too whatever.... some people can not be pleased no matter what you do.... it only makes you feel bad, but I think this is part of some peoples "game" to never be satisfied so you keep trying and trying....




you make a good point there...but no one trys forever.

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Tue 05/12/09 01:05 PM
Been there, done that...divorceohwell

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Tue 05/12/09 01:06 PM


yes and you can actually turn them way off by making them think you are clingy or too whatever.... some people can not be pleased no matter what you do.... it only makes you feel bad, but I think this is part of some peoples "game" to never be satisfied so you keep trying and trying....




you make a good point there...but no one trys forever.



no ya just can't

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Tue 05/12/09 01:08 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Tue 05/12/09 01:10 PM
YES, but usually its because you are a total desperate void, needy to fill yourself with what is missing. People like the attention, but know this is a red flag when you put out there more than theyre giving, or willing to give. Ive learned never to extend myself more than someones giving, unless theyre like, in the hospital or something... and then.., maybe. Best to complete yourself with what you need, before you enter a relationship, then your truly ready.

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Tue 05/12/09 01:12 PM

YES, but usually its because you are a total desperate void, needy to fill yourself with what is missing. People like the attention, but know this is a red flag when you put out there more than theyre giving, or willing to give. Ive learned never to extend myself more than someones giving, unless theyre like, in the hospital or something... and then.., maybe. Best to complete yourself with what you need, before you enter a relationship, then your truly ready.


Very wise words...and soo true. flowerforyou

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Tue 05/12/09 01:33 PM
some people are selfish enough to accept everything you have to give and return half as much, we shoul all make shure its an equaly giving relationship for it to be fairly equal, without equality problems will arrise

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Tue 05/12/09 01:55 PM


YES, but usually its because you are a total desperate void, needy to fill yourself with what is missing. People like the attention, but know this is a red flag when you put out there more than theyre giving, or willing to give. Ive learned never to extend myself more than someones giving, unless theyre like, in the hospital or something... and then.., maybe. Best to complete yourself with what you need, before you enter a relationship, then your truly ready.


Very wise words...and soo true. flowerforyou


:heart: thanks, took alot of hurt to realise.. expectations suck.

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