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Topic: Cheaters
Eddiemma's photo
Mon 05/11/09 11:15 AM

While I do believe that people can change if they truly want to and are motivated, I also think that most cheaters have terminal the grass is greener on the other side syndrome and they always have to be looking for that bigger better deal. A general sense of dissatisfaction with life when usually what they are is dissatisfied with themselfs. And instead of looking for ways to "fix' themselfs they look for someone to "fix them" for them.


I agree with this and would add that...People do change as they mature for better or worse depending on their programming..
...and people hopefully learn from their mistakes and make changes to better condition their relationships.. I'm just saying they can do all that away from me after they have cheated on me.. I wish them well in their journey to do so... It's just not going to be with me after the fact.. I wouldn't do it to my woman and I expect her not to do that to me... If I was that interested in another woman in my relationship I would reflect on myself and my relationship and obviously find that it's not working for some reason.. I wouldn't cheat on her.. I would brake up with her way before that and or try and fix and resolve the problems in my current relationship..
There is no excuse for cheating.. If you want many woman or men then date around and or be a player... If you want a relationship then not cheating is a fundamental rule to making it successful.

Lilypetal's photo
Mon 05/11/09 11:17 AM
My X cheated on me. Doesn't matter if he would have done it again or not. I could never forgive him or trust him again.

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Mon 05/11/09 11:20 AM
Most do. I wont take the chance with a cheater!!noway

mark77's photo
Mon 05/11/09 01:17 PM
yep

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 05/11/09 01:20 PM
Sure will.

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Mon 05/11/09 01:50 PM
Indeed.

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