Ok some women say im too nice. Is that possible ??? If you could take a look at my profile and let me know what you think. Thank you.

They generally mean boring when they call you nice.

well im dff not boreing im always doing something, and it is usually what they wanna do so.

3 points

Try rewording your statement. What you say isn't all that bad, just make it more positive and girl friendly.

you start off positive, but then put that being used and pushed around statement, which brings the reader down. keep it up beat!! good luck

thank you ;)

Im not calling you boring myself. You just gotta look at why they call you 'too nice'. Its unlikely that it is because you ARE too nice.

Welcome and Best Wishes

think your profile looks fine

thnx to 2kidsmom and nurjoyce.

I wouldn't put that you're an "average Joe" in your headline. Make yourself stand out from the average Joe.

Uh..photos...the more the better. Try smiling in one or two.

The things you mentioned in the bio section are alright, but could stand to be lengthened beyond three sentences.

I apologize for sounding like a critical A-hole, just trying to help. You seem like a good guy and if you make your profile a bit more elaborate, I believe it could greatly increase your chances.

And if you dion't feel like getting attention that way, then playing in the forums might help you out quite a bit in getting noticed.

Welcome to Mingle, have fun, and good luck

EZ

ok worked on my profile a lil let me know if its anybetter

Much better. But what did you shoot those last couple pictures with? A 1/4 megapixel camera? Any chance you could clear them up a bit? Pic #6 would be a bad ass picture for your default if you could clear it up. And you might wanna change "women" to "woman" in your headline. Anyhoo, the profile in general is definitely much better.

Ok i think ive almost gopt it. i will get some more pics and i think ill be good

Yep, new default pic much better.

thank you i will get some more... Now just wait and see if any women look at it

No, that's the wrong approach - taking no approach. Yeah the women will come here and look at it, but they won't do much besides say "welcome" and maybe give you a flower. And nobody gives reviews quite like me. You can't just sit here and wait for them to come crawling out the woodwork. You must go hunting, or do something to put yourself out there. You can go message all the chicks that you think are attractive, but I recommend the other forums, particularly General Discussion, Intimacy & Sex, Games, Regional, and Coffee Houses & Chit-Chat. These are the best ways to get yourself recognized. Just be friendly, respectful, not an a$$hole, not a perv (well not too much), not too desperate, and try not to start sh!t with people. Build up a decent rep and I think you will do fine.