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Topic: Temporarily Ignoring You
Monier's photo
Fri 05/08/09 09:11 PM

:heart:When your partner seems to be temporarily ignoring you,do you cuddle up to them and make yourself known,or do you pretend to be moody with them to get attention?:heart:Or something else?:heart:


That's when you remember everything that turns them on and make it rain with affection.

7z3r05's photo
Fri 05/08/09 09:13 PM

:heart:When your partner seems to be temporarily ignoring you,do you cuddle up to them and make yourself known,or do you pretend to be moody with them to get attention?:heart:Or something else?:heart:


i usually act childishly and pout until i get her attention.

hereformore's photo
Sat 05/09/09 05:48 AM

oh, don't pretend and play games... expecially at this time (bad spelling, and imho)...

I prefer the "stay close and hover a bit"... their body language and attitude will help you decide... all too often they either want to vent, or have someone simply listen...

Of course, perhaps if I was good at this I would still be married, so take this with a grain of salt!!

blushing
I agree. Playing games is lame, ignoring, pouting whatever you call it. I know the c word (communication) sounds like a cure all, but if we are all grown ups here, it is the best way to handle the differences between two people who want to make a relationship work. Like many other posters, I would have to agree, if my so is distancing themselves from me, I most likely would know if I had done something.
Having said that, however, each person is responsible for their own behavior and if you choose to pout/ignore be prepared to have your so tell you to hit the road.

s1owhand's photo
Sat 05/09/09 06:45 AM
define "temporarily" laugh

sometimes it is a good thing to bite your tongue for a while, take some deep breaths and count to ten a few times before saying something....errrr

regrettable

Pink_lady's photo
Sat 05/09/09 06:52 AM


:heart:When your partner seems to be temporarily ignoring you,do you cuddle up to them and make yourself known,or do you pretend to be moody with them to get attention?:heart:Or something else?:heart:


It depends...if they r ignoring me cos i have done summit to piss them off and i know im wrong, then i will be nice and snuggle up and say 'sowwwwwy'!

If however i dont think they have reason to ignore me, i will leave em stewing and go do some housework or summit to get rid of my own frustrations!



Loyaldad08's photo
Sat 05/09/09 07:28 AM
Snuggle up - pride kills a lot of godd relationships

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 05/09/09 08:19 PM



:heart:When your partner seems to be temporarily ignoring you,do you cuddle up to them and make yourself known,or do you pretend to be moody with them to get attention?:heart:Or something else?:heart:


It depends...if they r ignoring me cos i have done summit to piss them off and i know im wrong, then i will be nice and snuggle up and say 'sowwwwwy'!

If however i dont think they have reason to ignore me, i will leave em stewing and go do some housework or summit to get rid of my own frustrations!



bigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 05/11/09 04:24 AM

Snuggle up - pride kills a lot of godd relationships
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 05/12/09 08:39 AM
:banana:

Seakolony's photo
Tue 05/12/09 08:41 AM

:heart:When your partner seems to be temporarily ignoring you,do you cuddle up to them and make yourself known,or do you pretend to be moody with them to get attention?:heart:Or something else?:heart:


I go off and do my own thing, when they work through whatever it is, get out of there bad mood, or whatever else, they have my number and know where I live, etc.

no photo
Tue 05/12/09 08:41 AM

:heart:When your partner seems to be temporarily ignoring you,do you cuddle up to them and make yourself known,or do you pretend to be moody with them to get attention?:heart:Or something else?:heart:
I stick my nose up in the air.......because I can IGNORE 10 TIMES WORSE!!:angry: pitchfork laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 05/12/09 01:51 PM


:heart:When your partner seems to be temporarily ignoring you,do you cuddle up to them and make yourself known,or do you pretend to be moody with them to get attention?:heart:Or something else?:heart:
I stick my nose up in the air.......because I can IGNORE 10 TIMES WORSE!!:angry: pitchfork laugh
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misstina2's photo
Mon 05/25/09 08:00 PM
:heart: ignoring someone is childish games:heart:

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