Got a bit of a problem. I can not for the life of me find get a girl to go out with me. I feel like I put some effort into letting a girl know I'm interested but I can never get them to be interested in me. I'm begining to wonder if theres something I'm doing to repell women away or if there's some secret, unforseen code that I need to know to have a girl return the interest. In other words, how do I get a girl's number without appearing overbearing, desperate, or creepy? Is there any good way? Help someone, it's been forever since I've had a date and I know I could make some lucky lady very happy.

Act like you dont give a ****

Can someone please give him the secret code?

Does that really work?

No clue! welcome to the site.

Close.

Stop giving a ****! As in, dont act. Easier said than done i know.

Jusy say the heck with them. You're more attractive to them if you aren't interested anyway. Besides. Leaves more for the rest of us.

If you act like it long enough it will eventually become natural

Have you tried the honest, sincere, "I think you're beautiful" approach. It works.

YES

I've tried that. It's probably the drooling while I'm saying it that drives them away.

I don't even see them anymore. I'm pretty sure they're mostly just a figment of my imagination anyway.

*handing him a Kleenex* I hope it's the prison pic.

Women can smell desperation a mile off.

So the trick is to not be desperate. (i.e not give a s***).

Not that i know anything about anything.

It's all good. It's pretty much the blind leading the blind around here anyway.

No kidding Dan. You reek of desperation.

On here, you seem datable. Is there a female you know well enough (sister or other relative close in age or a friend) that you trust to give you an honest opinion after seeing you interact with women? Be prepared for what they say and not get defensive.