When girl's check out your profile as it shows in the who viewed me section but take no action like they do not nudge, email, or do anything. It is as if they like to window shop for the right man or something?? I dunno

I do that with the ladys what is fair is fair

guys are spose to make the first contact i think

That's how it works on the internet, don't take it personal. If you spend enough time online, you'll start to see how things are a bit different than in real life.

I am Guilty... I do it all the time.. And no I do not window shop, ok well maybe a little... You have to check out the package before you buy it

Dont you ask the lady your attracted to to dance ?

Dawn I so agree....

She just probably forgot that she wasn't on Stealth Mode.

I don't mean this to come across as all of them are not interested in you, but just because someone looks at your profile it doesn't mean they are requied to contact you.

I've looked at a lot of profiles... some because I liked the little portion that shows on the 'match with' page and wanted to see if there was more I liked... some because I liked what they said or they way the wrote in the forums and was curious about their location and who they were.

If someone is interested enough in you, give them time and they will contact you.

it's almost as if they took a closer look and said,

"oh. nevermind"

women are floatin what can i say

Tod >

Just so we're clear on this... I just looked at your profile out of curiosity and won't be contacting because of location and incompatibilty. You sound great for someone, so give them time.

This is true, what she says.. Also, sometimes, it's someone you know already, but who has posted a new pic.. And the little 1x1 to the left here just isn't large enough to make out any details, esp if there's writing involved, such as with the picture that I have currently have posted. And also again, I perv my friends on a regular basis just to see if they've added anything to their profiles, and haven't informed MOI- The Original Vanilla Gorilla.

Isnt this a little outdated? Not that I am opposed to contacting women that I think are attractive/funny/compatible. I wouldnt say that its set in stone that men are required to do all of the "first response" communication.


Id have to agree with Mike, we all do it, why cant they?

TM

i UNDERSTAND and you have nice insight into the matter.

Tod

good point