anybody ever dated one anbd survived?????

care to share...email or post

yep...and barely!!!

my daughter...she is 13.
her dad is a junkie.
she has nto seen him seen she was 2.

it was crack when I left.
from the arrset reports that i find online...
it was crystal meth AFTER i left.

hes done a lot of his time in orsion and the remaining being a junkie.

me, Im bit sure how i should feel.

its obviously been 11 years.
i survived and then some

our stories are similar ...he was my first ex hubby and it was heroine...we have a son...hes 19 now....and it was pretty tring at times..

yea i did
way before my ex hubby and i got married. a buddy of his got him hook on crank and he was shooting it up, i think he was more interested of getting high then anything... i had enough of him roaming town and whatever i remember one night he went to another town(wont say name for some people may not think that) but that town was considerd drug city usa... he was with a friend of his cant recall who at the moment. and he didnt come back for 2days and i didnt know what went on. and i found out later they got arrest(no license or insurance, and there was something else) but i finally gave in and gave him the chooce me or the drugs and he gave the drugs up far as i knew he did..(he lives with his 2nd wife and daughter) far as i know he can be back on drugs.. she can deal with it


about 7-8yrs ago i dated a guy for a very short time.(a week) he was not only a druggy but a abuser.... i couldnt call the police my neighbor did... he even had the nerve to call me collect that same nite..i had a restraining order on him. and he paged me after he got out of jail and police was supose to tell me but they didnt...
i dont know where hes at and i dont care...

thank you ladies for sharing. sometimes, in my world, I feel so alone

my son is now 22yrs old. and when we almost lost him the end of 2007 i harassed his dad for him to come down and see him. he wasent going to come down at all.that just shows how much of a jurk he is.... he brought his daughter and wife and i sware his daughter had more freaken brains than he did... we didnt tell my son that his dad was there for we didnt know if there would had been any probelms... a little over 4yrs ago my son was admited in the hospitol for tests and to find out what was wrong as he inheritaed gasritis from his dad. and i called his dad then and thats when i found out his dad had it.his dad actually called and talked to him. as my son had not seen him sense he was 2yrs old.(just by his dads actions i dont think he really understands a child that has a disabilty...) my son is a special needs child even though hes 22yrs old he has a mind capcity of a 12yr old

its hard raising their child.
my daughter, (she is hormanal, lol)

doesnt quite understand.
she keeps a pic of when she was 2 and of me and him and her on her dresser.

he volated his parole, a year ago.
on a new drug chrge and a different state.


OMG.......words cant express the anguish. for my shild.

for anyone involved in drugs or druggie

I may be 4:20 but not into the whole "peace through Pharms" thing. Has tweaker ex-room mates, alcoholic ex-room mates, even dated both flavors ONCE because once I found out it was over. I was taught you can't save people from themselves and usually teakers and other drug abusers are only seeking that next big rush.

Sorry but I will not play second fiddle to a drug.


Lates!

thanx andy.

i tried to SAVE him.
and ive spent years with regret and horror.

thinking i could done something different.



soon after he tried to trade ME for crack, i took our child and left.
and have done my damnest to not look back.

i CANNOT forgive.
my daughter is beautiful.
and so am I

me, my family, my kids.........are so much more than a lifetime on meth