Topic: meet the parents
JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:08 PM
sooo...

i'm not planning on introducing my boyfriend to my family... ever...

not ashamed of boyfriend or family, i just like to keep aspects of my life separate.

thoughts?

galendgirl's photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:11 PM
Edited by galendgirl on Fri 05/01/09 08:11 PM
Given my own family of birth, I agree.

Given the family of my own choosing in this life...they get to meet him someday (if he ever exists!)

My CHILDREN won't give me an option I'm sure so they are the exception to rule #1!

JasmineInglewood's photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:18 PM
:thumbsup:

galendgirl's photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:21 PM
...and woe to the man who has to meet my children! I don't even want to THINK about the grilling he's gonna get! noway

no photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:32 PM
I have a policy about family..




"you live your life your way, I will live my life my way" I don't want your opinions or advice unless I ask. so do not butt into my life or who I date / marry .. love you but there are my rules.

nvkikigirl's photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:34 PM

sooo...

i'm not planning on introducing my boyfriend to my family... ever...

not ashamed of boyfriend or family, i just like to keep aspects of my life separate.

thoughts?


I completely understand and agree. I don't think family has to know everything.

Savitar's photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:34 PM
I have actually had a Father ask me "what are your intentions with my daughter .

galendgirl's photo
Fri 05/01/09 08:36 PM

I have actually had a Father ask me "what are your intentions with my daughter .


That's what my kids want to ask...intentions with their mother! I"m a big girl...but they don't seem to get that. I guess I can be thankful they give 2 hoots, but still...the awkward dating lectures are hilarious!

no photo
Fri 05/01/09 09:21 PM
Most of my family are dead or incommunicado...guess I lucked out! :wink:

Savitar's photo
Fri 05/01/09 09:22 PM

Most of my family are dead or incommunicado...guess I lucked out! :wink:

Depends on how much you liked your family

lulu24's photo
Fri 05/01/09 09:35 PM
my family is huge...and a huge part of my life.

if he's just a fling, he might get away with only meeting a few of them. if it's serious, there has to be some meetage.

you never know when my family will pop up on my doorstep.

no photo
Fri 05/01/09 09:49 PM
I don't have any family, so that's not a problem.

Of course, I don't have a girlfriend to not introduce the family to, and that IS a problem....


no photo
Fri 05/01/09 09:51 PM
That's just silly. He's your boyfriend...unless you are embarassed by your family, introduce him and give him a chance in your life.

speedbug72's photo
Fri 05/01/09 09:59 PM

good way of doin it my parents dont know wat i run around with

no photo
Sat 05/02/09 02:08 AM
Im afraid of the PARENTS!!!!scared surprised scared