ok I know I always ask for help on here but I dont know where else to turn. Ok well money is really really tight and I have been looking for a job, might have a part-time job just gotta wait till tomorrow to see if I get the call. But because money is tight my b/f feels the stress an its driving him mad.. the stress level is high an its effecting his health. From time to time I feel bad because if it was not for me he would not be in this spot. If I would have waited till things were better. I hate to say it but I regret moving out here, its not our relationship at all..that part is perfect, never better. I don't know what to do.

Hey Brit I understand how it's tough, but it's times like that when people need to stick together.

Just keep plugging away at finding a job- take anything you are offered and make a budget and stick to it- let him know that you are here and you are trying hard to help him.

you guys will be fine- just don't go over budget- remember you can always get what you need but you might be able to get every thing you want right now.

apply for food stamps, medicaid, any assistance you can get- anything to help you financially.

Couple questions.........is he working? Are you getting really stressed about it and it's rubbing off on him, or is he just more uptight in nature?

Just keep looking for a job so that you can contribute - that seems like it'll make you feel better. Until then, just be sweet to him - do things he likes, cook what he likes, etc so that he knows you appreciate it

yes I agree..don't give up

Thanks Pete..


I looked into assistant an he makes too much. But Thank you I will keep trying.

Yes he does work, I think its both.. he is always worried bout money but these days he is more worried.

I sincerely hope things pick up for you soon
If you can survive as a couple through the hard times, then you can survive anything life throws at you

Ah ok......well if we all send some positive thoughts your way, maybe you will get that call tomorrow! In the meantime, do what you can to ease his fears with what was mentioned above. Good luck!

your too sweet hun. luv ya

Would if I could, but I can't so I won't.

Thanks guys.. you all are so sweet. I will deff let you all know if I got the phone call, Thanks again. Going to Ohio this weekend to see family,friends an pick up my new car an my dog. I cant wait!

Hi Red,your boyfriend would feel more stressed without you there with him,money comes and goes, some days you have it and some you don't.Go and see your family and stuff and then come back feeling positive again.Keep your chin up everything will fall into place. x

thanks sweetie.. will try to keep my head up.