There are tactful ways to go about giving your honest opinion and still
not hurt someone's feelings. You don't have to say, "That looks ugly on
you," but you could say, "I think the blue dress is more becoming on
you," or whatever.

Yea I guess but you know there is that one person that never understands
fully and wil say "are you tell me I don't look good Blue is my fav
color".....LOL

I dont lie.... takes too much time to try to remember the first lie when
youa re covering up from all the other lies.. (my past husbands)



i could take a quote...
"don't ask me what I think of you, you might not like the answer that i
give to you"

some times its the truth that hurts....

Everyone lies. It's not always consciously, but we all do it. We're
especially adpet at lying to ourselves. I can't point to any specific
time recently when I lied, but I'm sure I have — it's human nature, and
often so subtle we never realize we're even doing it.

"It's not a lie if you believe it's true."
-- George Costanza, Seinfeld

I will lie to make someone feel more positive about themselves..

That is as far as I will go, though..Lies have a way of boomeranging,
and biting you in the ass!!

yes jean it's only hair..

that is how I felt about it..

it is gone what is done is done!!

it's cute it is just gonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnneeeee

and bree your sencond post is true too!


especially with teenagers..

peer pressure sucks.

Tant I know how you feel-

My daughter cut all her beautiful long hair off sometime ago.

It is very-very short. I miss all her hair.

I had a hard time being truthful when I first saw it...

She likes it though and it is her head.

i've told falsehoods but never to you tulip, your still the hottest to
me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i hate lies and i hate people lying to me
i only tell lies when its neccasary and i really dont find it neccasary
very often
lies do more hurt than good
and lies are always gonna backfire on you so why set yourself up for the
put downs

so true lisa so true...

lisa, you're hot too, and that's no lie either, i love you witiness, and
you outlook on life, you are awesome

thank you modis

Of course I have lied. I try not too, but there are times, I know there
are...that I have not been absolutely truthful about something. I just
can't come up with it right off the top of my head yet. I know that I
have been untruthful to some when it seemed important to them for me to
not tell the truth. I am trying to not lesson what it is; a lie no
matter how little, is a lie. When I have caught myself knowing that I
did, I try and apologize for being untruthful. It is usually me that is
more concerned with it than the person that was told the untruth.
Being late for work: maybe made an excuse sound just a little more than
it was to make it feel better. Those kinds of things are lies.
Telling someone on here for instance, that may have hurt my feelings or
made me mad, that it was okay and that it didn't bother me, may have
been a lie. Whatever my reason for it may be.
Anyway, I try not too. I hope that I keep being as honest as I am now.
It can only get better. Practice makes perfect?lol
Kat

ty mod




lizzzzzzzzzzza

is chewing me out for my daughters hair

i lie everyday to redirect Altzheimers patients..you have to to stop
behavior from esculating or to ease their minds.

If you like somebody and don't tell them, is that a lie?

Wouldn't that be a secret??

That too. But aren't you also lying to yourself in a way? An ommission
of the truth?


Hi Kat!