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Edited by
justme659
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Tue 04/28/09 08:33 PM
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What did she lie about? First, lied about her last name Then said she didn't like sex without a relationship, but then later admitted to having an FWB Well the last name thing is iffy, I know this is streaching it, but maybe she is worried about anyone on the internet knowing her name. I know, I know you have meet. My first reaction is, Did you call her on the carpet for the lies?? I told her that the FWB lie made everything she's said turn into bull****, so ya, i guess i told her Well then, you have 2 choices. Cut bait or fish. You can either give her a chance to lie to you agian or leave while you still have a chance. Something to think about, what happens if you stay with her and she drags you deeper in to her web of lies? Is staying worth one week of knowing someone? |
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Have fun! Get to know her better! Play high stakes poker! Cut the cards!
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only a week and you're already 'falling' for her? 
Ya, it's one of my flaws how many "hours" we talking...sometimes that helps people see more of the picture...if you spent many many hours in the last week talking, eh...if only a few chats, for a few hours in the last week...well..... like, 5-6 hours a day |
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only a week and you're already 'falling' for her?
Ya, it's one of my flaws how many "hours" we talking...sometimes that helps people see more of the picture...if you spent many many hours in the last week talking, eh...if only a few chats, for a few hours in the last week...well..... like, 5-6 hours a day that's quite a bit then 
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Have fun! Get to know her better! Play high stakes poker! Cut the cards! Damn, i'm afraid you're right dude! |
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you can always play games right back,..
did i say that  
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you can always play games right back,..
did i say that
Yep, I heard it. |
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Ok, you just ruined your good advise! 
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What did she lie about? First, lied about her last name Then said she didn't like sex without a relationship, but then later admitted to having an FWB Well the last name thing is iffy, I know this is streaching it, but maybe she is worried about anyone on the internet knowing her name. I know, I know you have meet. My first reaction is, Did you call her on the carpet for the lies?? I told her that the FWB lie made everything she's said turn into bull****, so ya, i guess i told her Well then, you have 2 choices. Cut bait or fish. You can either give her a chance to lie to you agian or leave while you still have a chance. Something to think about, what happens if you stay with her and she drags you deeper in to her web of lies? Is staying worth one week of knowing someone? If honesty is important, you need to run. If having fun is important and you are having fun ... If having fun is important and you are not having fun ... Only you know what is important. |
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What did she lie about? First, lied about her last name Then said she didn't like sex without a relationship, but then later admitted to having an FWB Well the last name thing is iffy, I know this is streaching it, but maybe she is worried about anyone on the internet knowing her name. I know, I know you have meet. My first reaction is, Did you call her on the carpet for the lies?? I told her that the FWB lie made everything she's said turn into bull****, so ya, i guess i told her Well then, you have 2 choices. Cut bait or fish. You can either give her a chance to lie to you agian or leave while you still have a chance. Something to think about, what happens if you stay with her and she drags you deeper in to her web of lies? Is staying worth one week of knowing someone? If honesty is important, you need to run. If having fun is important and you are having fun ... If having fun is important and you are not having fun ... Only you know what is important. I'm looking for an LTR, which is why this disturbed me so much |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Tue 04/28/09 08:48 PM
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keep her as a friends WB but keep open for awhile, don't lock in.... she's insecure, and that's why she lied. if she feels comfortable with you, and she's coming clean, it's a good sign.... keep your guard up, and enjoy! she doesn't realize that she doesn't have to cover-up...most of us learn that it backfires, and therefore the pain of not telling the truth is worse than the pain of covering it up at this point.
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I'm looking for an LTR, which is why this disturbed me so much well, i been on a lot of sites...found maybe a handful of people, regardless male/female, that weren't liars.. i would say...keep talking to people, guard yourself for more than a week...if it pans out for a month or more....then go further.... |
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The only problem I see with this lying thing is that if we over analyze a situation too much we will always find something that is perceived as a lie. I only say this because I am guilty of it myself. I'm not saying this is the case in your situation, but it is very easy to find fault in something if you are looking hard enough.
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are you still afraid that you're not sure of... a love there is no cure for? 
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Edited by
Audie
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Tue 04/28/09 08:58 PM
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are you still afraid that you're not sure of... a love there is no cure for?
Maybe... I guess i'll roll with it a while and see if it happens again Besides, I have FWB's too, so when she came clean I realized we were even more alike than previously realized....just didn't like the cover-up |
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since sometimes people can be hard of hearing you should use images to express yourself.
point to her a$$ long enough for her to understand that you're pointing to her a$$ and then point to the curb. you may have to repeat this several times for it to sink in but if she has any intelligence at all she should get it by the fourth of fifth time. . . . |
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since sometimes people can be hard of hearing you should use images to express yourself. point to her a$$ long enough for her to understand that you're pointing to her a$$ and then point to the curb. you may have to repeat this several times for it to sink in but if she has any intelligence at all she should get it by the fourth of fifth time. . . .
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