I can handle being alone all day and even enjoy it. However as the
bedtime hour approaches I start to fight it and find reasons not to go
bed....find a Late movies: yawn:; I single guy should probably should
NOT count sheep people will talk....it is in the dark and being
horizontal with no one to hold is when I realize I miss having somewhere
more that Thought I did.


Does this get anybody else and how do you deal ?

Ya know its all good till that big 0le pillow top king size abd empty
bed is in front of me and EMPTY bed calls my name

as long as you don't get cought painting red XXs on the ones that kick!

I'm kinda used to it being single so long. I admit that it is a
wonderful feeling having someone to warm the bed up for you!

Or kid, your feet gets cold and you stick them under her and there all
the warmth you needs. I mis that

iron j/k a sick sheep joke! sorry sick humor

I miss being able to but my back agaist her'd snd back to back we could
face each outer

Cat in the forst post I put up NO counting sheep because people will
talk


Is that what u r saying?

yea they say they paint red Xs on the ones that kick

its safe sex

At first, when we separated (before the divorce), I would wake up all
night and wonder where he was. Had he left for work? (He got up at like
3 a.m. for work.) Was he getting ready for work? Could I still go out in
the kitchen and say goodbye for the day? Oh, yeah, he's gone. That got
old! Also, being a single mom, I was really afraid at night. I'd leave
the lights on when he had the kids for the weekend.

In a sad and good way, I got used to sleeping alone. I am afraid that
that one side of my king-sized bed is going to get too used and I'll
have to throw the whole thing out! Better find someone to help me
balance out the mattress, lol.

iRON I know what you are saying there,
Since we seperated I dont think I have slept 2 hours at a time.
Yeah I miss not be able to put my cold feet somewheres
to warn them.
Just cant seem to get used to the part of going to bed alone.

The time has not made it any easier to live alone, especially, sleep
alone! Sometimes I tend to work, a lot longer than I want to. Miss the
warmth, the FEEL of that ONE, that shares my love, and bed!!! We tend to
realize, the priorities are changed, and feel that empty space, not only
in our beds, but in our hearts!!!

For some reason, I hope I never get used to sleeping alone. It's like, a
piece of me, is gone; need to recover!!! (gotta get me some little guys)

Night time is the worst for me too. I miss having someone to cuddle
with.

Well, maybe I'm weird (don't be so quick to agree) but, if I was married
or living with a man, I'd want separate bedrooms.

Don't get me wrong; there'd be plenty of sex and plenty of snuggling,
but, when it comes time to go to sleep, I hate having someone in bed
with me. (If we fall asleep together that's one thing).

But me, being the queen of insomnia, for one thing, it's hard enough to
fall asleep when i'm by myself. But knowing I can't sleep might be
keeping someone else awake (tossing and turning, etc.) makes me sleep
even that much less.

I also like to keep the tv on all night. A lot of people can't tolerate
that.

And, I think each person should have their own private place they can
go, where they can decorate it how they like, and they can go read or
watch what they want to watch or lay down on their own bed, etc.

I have sexual needs, I have romantic needs and I have the need for human
contact/closeness, but ...a little goes a long way. I'd feel
suffocated/smothered cuddling all night. That's just me.

Sorry to know that u feel like that IRon but a woman will come one day
just keep trying ODNT NEVER quit on that we all dont like to be alone
but we need to do it for sometime's we dont get what we want i dont at
one time. Hug