I had to leave my house and most of my possessions nearly a year ago.
I had to leave, but since then I have been locked out of the house and have been stood up by ex for him to deliver some of my most treasured things.
I've actually come to grips with having to start my life over from scratch, it can be rather liberating, and I also started a small business.
At this time, I am 3 months away from a no contest divorce. Blue/Black ink, John Hanncock and off we go.
But I find myself shaking the lion's cage. Playing his stupid games.

Some days it feels good, because honestly, he's pretty stupid in reality.

Other days, I'm no better than him.

Have you ever done that?

Been there done that

Just move ahead and feel the power you now have
Really experience it and you'll see being a woman on her own, answering to no man is the most glorious feeling in the world!

Just grab onto your life and run witlh it while he's left eating your dust!!

i have done that, but remember, as long as you play along, it is he that has the power, not you..
let go...you'll feel even more powerful...
peace & blessings!

After having everything and I mean everything lost in a house fire a year ago this past Saturday those posessions don't mean anything. As long as you got out with your life that is all that matters. I have my two daughters and we started our life over. It was rough at first but I finally just let all of it go and started making getting new precious posessions to cherish. As for the man part let him go. SOOOO NOT WORTH IT!

I am so sorry to hear about the shape your in but as DragonFly said .. you have your LIFE, your health ( well as best you can right LOL ) everything else is material......
I am told mature to PLAY games with ex's ... I have much better things to waste my time on .. KIDS, hockey .. CHICKS woo hooo