Topic: Being single after 13 years of marriage
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Fri 04/24/09 01:27 PM
How can a 46 year old woman compete with the "girls" out there because the men in this age bracket are looking for "girls" not women

Monier's photo
Fri 04/24/09 01:29 PM
The only person you have to compete with is yourself.

P.S. I like women and not girls. flowerforyou

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Fri 04/24/09 01:29 PM
Got sugar?

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Fri 04/24/09 01:33 PM
I don't believe that to be true at all. The ones you are describing, are the ones we meet first, just because they make themselves noticeable.

The real men are just sitting in the back waiting to see what happens.

They want something real as well.


Keep an open mind. Good luck to ya

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Fri 04/24/09 01:43 PM
Edited by robert1652 on Fri 04/24/09 01:44 PM

How can a 46 year old woman compete with the "girls" out there because the men in this age bracket are looking for "girls" not women

How do you know what men are looking for????????????????

Just be yourselfflowerforyou

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Fri 04/24/09 01:46 PM

How can a 46 year old woman compete with the "girls" out there because the men in this age bracket are looking for "girls" not women


I hear ya......welcome to mingle. I began dating after 12 years of marriage and found it to be very daunting. Still do. There is someone out there for each of us, just may take some time to find them. As the others said, be yourself. Live life, have a ball and you never know what may come along. Good Luck!

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Fri 04/24/09 02:17 PM
Kinda hard to compete without a pic posted.......ohwell ohwell

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Fri 04/24/09 02:20 PM
Nope...no competition! It either is or it isn't. Besides like they said, some people actually want a woman. laugh

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Fri 04/24/09 02:25 PM
Edited by AllSmilesInTulsa on Fri 04/24/09 02:26 PM
It all comes from within! I'm 52 and have no problem.. but then again... if a man is looking for a 25 year old, then he is NOT the man for me!