Ok so when Justin broke up with me I sent back his stuff and all the momentos I had of our relationship! He told me he needed time to himself and that maybe after a while we could try being together again! Well anyways he got his stuff in the mail today and called me & was upset that I didnt want to keep the jewelry, plane tickets, and all the other stuff! Then when he found out that I was going out with a girlfriend and a group of guys he got upset about that too!?
Hes so confusing! What does all of this mean?

I don't know him, so this is just a guess. But, you're not sitting at home mourning, so maybe in his mind that translates into "you never cared about me!"?

he wants to have his cake and eat it too?

I vaguely recall your other post. My suggestion is to cut all ties with him for now. Go do what YOU wanna do and there is no need to fill him in on where you'll be and with whom. HE chose to take a break - give it to him and enjoy your life!

Correct! This happened with my ex-gf but the situation was reversed. She got pissed off when I started leaving and going out with people.

Thanks Ledi!

I'm a big believer in never letting anyone else see my pain, so I'd really drive people like that nuts. I may do my crying in private, but to the world, all is status quo.

Nothing worse than a man whom cannot take his own medicine...

These guys are right; he just feels like you should be hurting, You might be, but do not give him the satisfaction... not to mention your business is your OWN.

Yea, just take the easy non-stressful road like I have been for the past 2 years...don't date

YEP!!!!

LOL been doing that for the past year myself

Sorry, msskarly - didn't mean to go off topic :)

haha..no worries! Thanks for your advice!

He's a very confusing guy?

We would all like to think that when we leave our partners they will be in mourning. He is a little put out that you are not.

It is good for you not to leave his things laying around, you have made him get off the fence.

He cannot have his cake and it too with you and now he knows it...lol

Basically that you beat him to the punch line...in other words your doing what he thought he would

ya drop all ties with him and move on your a young lady so its best just to move on to better things

Drop ties and move on. Do understand though that just because he broke up wiht you doesn't mean he may not have feelings for you still and is hurt by seeing that stuff you returned and know you will be out with men too got him a bit bitter.. it's naturally.. don't you think you would be more upset if he never carried for the stuff again and cared less to see you having fun with out him??????


****poof****

You are one of the few women who has done something a lot of others cannot or will not do, you tossed the guy aside completely. No strings, no games. He got everything back so he has no way of trying to play sympathy and fond memories on you. In other words you are not letting him hold anything on you!

Let me just say this in a way that should be clear to understand...

MAD PROPS TO YOU GIRL! TOTAL RESPECT!

That took backbone and a sense of pride I don't see in a lot of people. Many women keep jewelry and anything of value proving the stereotypical belief of women having a gold digger streak.

I consider what you did refreshing in a lot of ways. You can't be bought. That is proper!

To you I raise a toast!

Party on

Be excellent !!!


Oh, I bet homie is crying crocodile tears right now. If he tries to call you going "baby please! It was all a big mistake! How can you do this to me? Ask him if he needs a beer to actually cry in...

sounds like he doesnt want ya but doesnt want anyone else to want U either, Its a game commonly played by BOTH genders!!