i was talking to a woman from germany' everyday she contacted me' first from myspace, i thought it was nothing because i was talking to other women" to as the week's went by she started saying she loved" me she used to call everyday all the time she sent me stuff love card's' a watch even money one time i sent her stuff to i was not attracted to her first, because she was kinda heavy also i told her i was a virgin" then she wanted me more my friend's always' bragged to me about how good sex was and how they could get the women i am the shy type anyway i went to germany" to see her for 3 months we had sex it was the bomb she cooked for me and stuff the people were nice but she started acting different, i fell in love with her she cursed smoked ,,and took drugs like weed and stuff and drinked see i grew up in church' i never did stuff like that before but i cursed and drinked for her she said she had been in abusive relationships" before and been cheated on so i stopped talking to all women on the phone, i told her everything about my life she was my first love when i came back home, she did call a few time's but then she slowed down. we made pic's together for a cd so i could show her and me together' on here i had been asking for it for months she said she didn't know where it is one time she said she was not rich, i always' treated her with love she started making excuses about thing's like she had no more money" to call from the phonebooth she used to borrow money to call me anyway she said she has high depression' i knew this at first but she told me she could handle a relationship slowly she stopped texting me she said her cell feel in the rain, she was using the neibor's cell she stopped then she said her phoneline, is messed up and that the phonebooth is messed up finally she said the doctor" said she had to go to rehab she was supposed to went last month that was the last email, i got from her she said she would stay in touch' with me and contact me soon i sent her a lot of stuff before she went she didn't even say thank you until i told her mom then she did it day's later she said she have to go to rehab to get better it's been six week's now nothing i really do love her i thought at least you could email someone in rehab that is if she is in rehab i checked myspace" i saw she was log in a week later after emaling me her mom said she suppose to be at rehab but why was she on myspace for i'm so confused and hurt i feel like i got played, also i talked to a girl on here i thought she liked me but never emaile's me i don't get email's nomore like i used to i went on a site yesterday" and on that site in the sex forums some on the women said pass to me meaning they would not do me i don't no what's wrong i feel i lost my touch i feel at least i'm a decent looking guy i feel like quitting everything i lost my faith in women and love can someone please help me with some advice should i still wait for her to call or email.

Run Forrest run!!

i think the lesson here is to stay away from women from Germany the only things The Germans are good at is starting World Wars and inventing The Shamwow be seeing you

You're losing faith in women after ONE bad relationship? Sounds to me like she's a player and she played you hard. But, you live and learn and move on. There are far more non-playing women (and men) than not, you'll find a good one

P.S., your post is a little hard to read because there's no punctuation, capitals, etc. It's one big long sentence. That makes it very hard to read but more importantly, hard to understand

I read the entire post take time and move on I wouldn't travel that far to meet someone again if I were you perhaps local would be best

OH I'M SORRY! ABOUT THAT I'M JUST HURT AND I WAS IN A HURRY.

she alway's complimented! me to i don't know why.

thats common even when its not meant

Players do that. And the thing is, you shouldn't feel bad about it. These people, they know EXACTLY what they're doing and how to do it. I doubt there's many people around who haven't had at least one similar experience in their life, maybe not to such an extent as yours but similar. We all feel your pain But trust me when I tell you, it will pass. And if you learn from this experience, your pain will be worth it in the long run. Until then, just keep on living your life as best you can and know that in the not too distant future, you're going to wake up happy again.

Romee, I can totally sympathize -- I've been through more than a few of those myself and it's no fun. You end up wondering "What did I do wrong?" when you weren't the one causing the problem at all.

To me, she sounds unstable, indecisive, self-absorbed, and maybe a little bit sadistic. It's a bad combination. I'm betting this is not the first time she's done this sort of thing, and it probably won't be the last.

Consider yourself lucky to have gotten out this quickly -- imagine being with her for 5 years or so, and THEN she shows her true self....bad scenario, there.

Hurt fades, not every woman is the same, and I know you well enough to KNOW that you can do better! A LOT better!

There's some luck involved, some opportunity, being in the right place at the right time, talking to the right person the right way....lots of variables.

But you don't have to put up with psychos....

Which, by the way, is one reason I would never try to get involved with somebody from MySpace....!!

Good luck, buddy. Don't let this one bad experience ruin the next one.

thank you missstina i won't! do that again plus she brought up marriage often to soon plus she didn't want to come here.

your first love and first heartbreak is the toughest...it does get easier and one day you'll wonder what the heck you ever saw or felt in her...

you seriously have to stop wonder "why???" "what did i do wrong???"
you'll never know and any explanation you might get will make no sense at all..

sorry i don't know you, we must be online at different times, you seem like a great guy that any together woman would be lucky to be involved with...

good luck...chin up

brenda

thank you brenda

Honestly Romee.........I think you need to LET GO of the girl from germany!!!! Its very obvious shes making EXCUSES to you.....YOU DESERVE SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH BETTER than that!!!!! There are MANY woman who like you very much, dont kid yourself!!!! And if YOU like someone.....email them.........let them KNOW, straight out!! Maybe THEY are to shy to let you know how they feel, & are hoping that YOU make the first move!!!??
You are a sweetheart..........move on & find your HAPPINESS!!!!

THANK YOU BECKIE

THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR YOUR REPLIES

Sweetheart Romee
You need to FOLLOW your heart...She MAY be going through some ISSUES at this time...but then again,she should still keep in contact with you !! You are a GREAT,SWEET Honest guy ,that needs to be *Loved*,the same way you give *Love*!! It's All for you to decide,what seems real,and what seems Not! Other opinions may help you feel Better at times,and SAD at times..But ,you NEED to make your own Decisions!! And ALWAYS remember ..Whatever you do..Your GOOD Friends on here..will support you 100%!! I am here..for ya.....And you KNOW it!!! BOO

thank you so much sherry for you

Thanks Boo...You are a doll