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Topic: prejudice
SharpShooter10's photo
Sun 04/19/09 08:50 PM


have you ever been judged as something you are not before being given the opportunity to prove otherwise?
yup
70's, because I was a soldier
80's -early 90's, rode harley, tats, long hair

today, not sure, no examples, everyone loves me laugh

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/19/09 08:51 PM



well this has been nice and all bigsmile

... but what i had in mind for the thread was for people to elaborate on some examples bigsmile instead of just saying yes/no. flowerforyou




It's a hard topic...it means something different to almost everyone.


alrighty then ohwell


For some it's race...for some it's gender...for some it's single vs married status...for some it's what side of the "tracks" you live on or the job you do...the level of education you have or don't have...

What did you have in mind when you posted???

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sun 04/19/09 08:55 PM




well this has been nice and all bigsmile

... but what i had in mind for the thread was for people to elaborate on some examples bigsmile instead of just saying yes/no. flowerforyou




It's a hard topic...it means something different to almost everyone.


alrighty then ohwell


For some it's race...for some it's gender...for some it's single vs married status...for some it's what side of the "tracks" you live on or the job you do...the level of education you have or don't have...

What did you have in mind when you posted???


i left it free and open to anyone's interpretations of prejudice and how it is applicable to their own situation, whether it be any of the above you mentioned flowerforyou

EZ4Sheezy's photo
Sun 04/19/09 08:58 PM
Yeah, when I was working construction I had a job installing flooring and within 2 years went from $6.50/hr to averaging $50/hr because I was a quick learner and damn good at what I did! Then I lost that job through the slow season. When I went looking for another job in the same field. Even though I had experience and exceptional provable skill, I had a hard time finding anyone who was willing to pay someone my age more than $8/hr.

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/19/09 08:58 PM



i left it free and open to anyone's interpretations of prejudice and how it is applicable to their own situation, whether it be any of the above you mentioned flowerforyou



Not getting much, huh???

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Sun 04/19/09 09:01 PM
Okay so i'll throw my two cents in

I've been judged on

Female working in a "man's" job

My weight

My hair color (pink and purple tends to attract attention)

My tattoo's & piercings

And now the funny part is, I dress professionally for work, I've got normal hair color, lost the weight but still get judged because I'm too "normal"

SharpShooter10's photo
Sun 04/19/09 09:03 PM

Okay so i'll throw my two cents in

I've been judged on

Female working in a "man's" job

My weight

My hair color (pink and purple tends to attract attention)

My tattoo's & piercings

And now the funny part is, I dress professionally for work, I've got normal hair color, lost the weight but still get judged because I'm too "normal"
I love pink and purple hair on a woman :wink: but then again, I like the Gothic look on some as well. Sexy

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/19/09 09:04 PM



And now the funny part is, I dress professionally for work, I've got normal hair color, lost the weight but still get judged because I'm too "normal"



Can't win for losing, right?

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Sun 04/19/09 09:05 PM




And now the funny part is, I dress professionally for work, I've got normal hair color, lost the weight but still get judged because I'm too "normal"



Can't win for losing, right?


Pretty much now that I've tamed down the outside it shocks the hell outta everyone when I do reveal too much of the inside


JasmineInglewood's photo
Sun 04/19/09 09:05 PM




i left it free and open to anyone's interpretations of prejudice and how it is applicable to their own situation, whether it be any of the above you mentioned flowerforyou



Not getting much, huh???


not getting much... from the responses?

it's quite alright drinker

galendgirl's photo
Sun 04/19/09 09:07 PM


Pretty much now that I've tamed down the outside it shocks the hell outta everyone when I do reveal too much of the inside



The flip side is the responsible, predictable person (seriously TAME) who's done the right thing while raising her kids and everyone thinks they KNOW her...

Yep...that's me! I scare the crap outta people when I push their paradigms and I don't even do anything all that crazy! It's just that they THINK they have me all figured out and then find out I'm not actually quite what they expect. Funny as heck, actually...I rather enjoy making them squirm a little!

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