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Topic: help? feeling hopeless...
nvkikigirl's photo
Tue 04/14/09 01:39 PM

This is hard to admit but I don't have any girl friends. I don't work and don't have much of a social life. Sad I know....


I ve been trying to find something to keep busy with but wher I live there is not much, I keep quite busy with the kid.


You need some 'grown-up' fun. Kids are their own reward, but you need time for you, doing the things you enjoy, spending time with your friends. Get a sitter and plan a nite out with your girl friends.



I can relate to this. I just keep on looking and believe me, I know it's a cliche, but if I can find awesome people to talk to, then I believe anyone can.

What people have said about this site is true, before you know it, you will stumble across some great people. You can see their personality in the forums. I have never met a more friendly bunch.

Have fun and smile and meet all the great people here, men and women for awesome conversation!!

no photo
Tue 04/14/09 01:46 PM
Edited by durtydduck on Tue 04/14/09 01:47 PM


Did you try Pat's .. Mutual Matches what what think think ..

There is a good chance Pat's Mutual Matches can help you find some one tonight, odds are you never know what your gonna get.

Hmm but as everybody else has said here.. it takes time to find some one. Maybe when you don't look it will happen, one just never knows.

Never give up on something your really wanting out of life.

Besides the fact I've been single my whole life, not much by choice.. just haven't gotten out a whole lot and or found any one.





It's true, plus I have a new slogan!!!


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EZ4Sheezy's photo
Tue 04/14/09 02:43 PM
Eh, don't give up. I've been single for 9 years and not by choice. But I haven't given up hope. It's all we got. In the meantime, just live for you. When you love your life, yourself and how you're living, some guy is bound to see that in you and you're that mich more likely to find what you're [not even] looking for.

feistybaby's photo
Tue 04/14/09 02:50 PM

Eh, don't give up. I've been single for 9 years and not by choice. But I haven't given up hope. It's all we got. In the meantime, just live for you. When you love your life, yourself and how you're living, some guy is bound to see that in you and you're that mich more likely to find what you're [not even] looking for.



I tend to agree with EZ you have to love yourself and your own life before trying to share it with someone else. No one can magically make your life better for you, and while being with someone may put a smile on your face it isn't going to make the rest of your life go away. Happiness shows and if you are happy you are more likely to find someone to share that happiness with. And someone else had a good point as well you don't have to find perfection to get out and enjoy adult company. Make a friend or buddy to share activities with. The best relationships start with friendship.

tngxl65's photo
Tue 04/14/09 03:12 PM


Did you try Pat's .. Mutual Matches what what think think ..

There is a good chance Pat's Mutual Matches can help you find some one tonight, odds are you never know what your gonna get.

Hmm but as everybody else has said here.. it takes time to find some one. Maybe when you don't look it will happen, one just never knows.

Never give up on something your really wanting out of life.

Besides the fact I've been single my whole life, not much by choice.. just haven't gotten out a whole lot and or found any one.





It's true, plus I have a new slogan!!!


Mutual Match, Pick Click & Date!!


Thought you were going for a different 'D' word..... whew

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/14/09 03:13 PM
nothing in life is ever easy.

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