Topic: I have a problem... =(
Dro_In_Indio's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:16 AM
Edited by Dro_In_Indio on Tue 04/14/09 07:34 AM
.

Winx's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:16 AM

If you really love her you wouldnt be entertaining these thoughts of other women.


I very much agree with this.

Winx's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:17 AM

and i agree with drew.


oops, that's me. i mean i agree with whoever's right.

i'm just being agree-able. i'm a follower.


. . .


laugh

trgirl's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:21 AM
i like big hairy men!!!bigsmile

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:21 AM
Run from all of them. Save your money.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:24 AM
I would just focus on the woman & maybe step back a bit from her if she's not responding with the same feelings.

beautyfrompain's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:30 AM

It came out wrong, because I was tired.

I think I am just lonely and just don't know what to do, thanks for the posts...

love is too strong a word and no she didn't hurt me. I am typically in control of my emotions and I can always "read" people. I am very good at reading body language and changing mine to match, probably why I am a good "people person"... no one ever hates me and I can generally read just about anyone.

The other girls... Are easy to read. I am not in the dark and I know where I stand (so far) lol They have made their intentions quite clear.

But the other girl, I am perplexed. Maybe I am chasing the wind lol

Ok so you don't think you're in love anymore....you just said that because you were tired? hmmmm fickle pickle

feistybaby's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:31 AM
First off quit knocking yourself and feeling guilty because you are entertaining thoughts of other people. If you have no commitment established with this other woman you are doing no one any harm. It is only human to look in the places that offer us contentment.

Secondly talk to the lady in question and lay it all on the table. Yes, that involves a risk because your feelings may not be returned in the same measure but you will never know unless you put it out there and ask.


Thirdly don't waste time with dreams you aren't willing to chase. If you can't put your all out there why do you expect anyone else to?


Best of Luck~ flowerforyou

beautyfrompain's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:32 AM

I would just focus on the woman & maybe step back a bit from her if she's not responding with the same feelings.

I think I'm in love with patsfan...ohhhh wait it was just gas.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:34 AM


I would just focus on the woman & maybe step back a bit from her if she's not responding with the same feelings.

I think I'm in love with patsfan...ohhhh wait it was just gas.



Take Beano before & there will Beano gas laterlaugh

beautyfrompain's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:41 AM



I would just focus on the woman & maybe step back a bit from her if she's not responding with the same feelings.

I think I'm in love with patsfan...ohhhh wait it was just gas.



Take Beano before & there will Beano gas laterlaugh


That's why you fed me that...you bad bad boy.

dolphin14's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:45 AM
Edited by dolphin14 on Tue 04/14/09 07:48 AM

I know that I look like a big hairy man, and I play like I know what I am talking about. I don't. My heart literally aches right now so save your f*cking jokes ...

I think I am in love with someone. She is perfect for me. I think she is beautiful and kind and has everything I want in a someone.

Lately ... 2 other women have started to try very hard to get to know me and I find myself entertaining the thought of being with them.

I have told her how I feel and so far she has not told me, but she calls me and asks me to do things with her. I do everything I can to be with her... I get glimers from her, but then she seems to be trying to not follow them.

I am not a man that craves just sex. I never have been. I want someone and I feel I am betraying my feelings and my heart by entertaining the thought of others.






Sometimes people don't know what they have when its right in front of them. May not hurt to just mention to the "woman that ur really interested in that there are others asking u out and not sure what u should do" That the nudge she needs to really rethink about the great guy she has in front of her.


PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:46 AM




I would just focus on the woman & maybe step back a bit from her if she's not responding with the same feelings.

I think I'm in love with patsfan...ohhhh wait it was just gas.



Take Beano before & there will Beano gas laterlaugh


That's why you fed me that...you bad bad boy.





slaphead It may have been the Fibre one bar, although very tasty it would have the same affectwinking

beautyfrompain's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:50 AM





I would just focus on the woman & maybe step back a bit from her if she's not responding with the same feelings.

I think I'm in love with patsfan...ohhhh wait it was just gas.



Take Beano before & there will Beano gas laterlaugh


That's why you fed me that...you bad bad boy.





slaphead It may have been the Fibre one bar, although very tasty it would have the same affectwinking

I'm pretty sure it was your triple bean dip.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:55 AM






I would just focus on the woman & maybe step back a bit from her if she's not responding with the same feelings.

I think I'm in love with patsfan...ohhhh wait it was just gas.



Take Beano before & there will Beano gas laterlaugh


That's why you fed me that...you bad bad boy.





slaphead It may have been the Fibre one bar, although very tasty it would have the same affectwinking

I'm pretty sure it was your triple bean dip.



:angel:

Winx's photo
Tue 04/14/09 07:56 AM
Naww...it was the Spam.

beautyfrompain's photo
Tue 04/14/09 08:03 AM

Naww...it was the Spam.
Ewww ....look the other way scared

Winx's photo
Tue 04/14/09 08:05 AM


Naww...it was the Spam.
Ewww ....look the other way scared


Pats loves Spam.laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 04/14/09 08:06 AM
Edited by PATSFAN on Tue 04/14/09 08:06 AM

Naww...it was the Spam.




Winx can't get enough of this delicious canned meat.

Winx's photo
Tue 04/14/09 08:07 AM


Naww...it was the Spam.




Winx can't get enough of this delicious canned meat.


ill

laugh