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If I am getting them, I am giving them right back.
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been there, done that, dont give a crap
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I think I am the loner of the site. I mean I used to try and write others but never got any where so I just given up. Some people might take a look at my profile then say noting at all. No big deal since every body does it at least on this site. Dunno of any other sites like this. They look at mine and then they want to argue about it! Which is OK, proves they're paying attention at least.... |
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yeah but lex... you're celeb status here. i'm just a peeon. ew. Well, celeb status on a dating site is not really all it's cracked up to be. It's all based on the presence and/or absence of groupies. As far as I know, there are no dating site groupies, just like there are no author groupies. Maybe I should have stayed in music! |
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Edited by
Johncenawlife316
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Mon 04/13/09 01:40 PM
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I think I am the loner of the site. I mean I used to try and write others but never got any where so I just given up. Some people might take a look at my profile then say noting at all. No big deal since every body does it at least on this site. Dunno of any other sites like this. They look at mine and then they want to argue about it! Which is OK, proves they're paying attention at least.... lol.. not too sure why any body would want to argue about what have wrote down on your profile etc. Heck I am not even too sure what to write any more on my profile, so I just shorten it. But whatever. I always reply to any and every body who email / or write me. At least they took the time to say something to me vs noting at all, however I am not bothered by this though. I am just not as famous as every body else is here.. such as Mirror and you. |
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lol.. not too sure why any body would want to argue about what have wrote down on your profile etc. Heck I am not even too sure what to write any more on my profile, so I just shorten it. Usually it's about my personal preferences -- why I should consider dating someone who is diametrically opposed to every one of my standards -- hell, if I wanted to do that, I could have stayed married.... |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Mon 04/13/09 01:46 PM
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I think I am the loner of the site. I mean I used to try and write others but never got any where so I just given up. Some people might take a look at my profile then say noting at all. No big deal since every body does it at least on this site. Dunno of any other sites like this. They look at mine and then they want to argue about it! Which is OK, proves they're paying attention at least.... lol.. not too sure why any body would want to argue about what have wrote down on your profile etc. Heck I am not even too sure what to write any more on my profile, so I just shorten it. I know Lex's pain too. If someone reads my profile and is not my type, they take that as personal rejection -- just from READING only! 
I always have guys trying to argue with me about my profile and what my tastes are in men. They try to change my mind -- tell me they will change my mind about having kids! WTF?  
Some tell me I am a bad, horrible person because I have specific tastes; they call me names. All that does is prove that I am happy with my expectations. Anyone who would act this way is NOT stable or functional in dealing with social situations. I can't imagine how miserable a relationship would be with a person that gets so defensive they act like a 5 year old! 
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i'm guilty of the ignore (especially in the case that they only 'nudge')
sometimes i get these creepy emails that give me bad vibes... course - there are also times where i read an email and think "i'll reply tomorrow" ... then totally forget
just email the guy again - best of luck |
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F*ck em
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I know Lex's pain too. If someone reads my profile and is not my type, they take that as personal rejection -- just from READING only!
Melody, I'm glad you brought this up -- because it's something I have a hard time comprehending -- How is it that some people automatically equate "Sorry, you're not my type" with "Sorry, but you're automatically a terrible person"? I mean, where does THAT come from? I never put anyone down for not being my type -- I'd have to put down 183% of all the women in the world, and I'm just too tired to do that today -- all I'm saying is I want what I want, I don't want what I don't want, and I'm not going to just change my entire value system out of the blue because one person says "You're completely wrong and you need to change everything you believe and give me a chance." It's not like I just randomly made up my preferences and standards -- they're BASED on things -- past experiences, mostly; bad situations I simply don't want to repeat and relive. I'm sure a LOT of people have those -- not the same ones I've had, but still.... I don't try to change anyone's preferences. I figure they're there for a reason. It's not my job to tell anybody that their preferences are wrong. How the hell would I know? 
They try to change my mind -- tell me they will change my mind about having kids! WTF?
I get that, too. Even when I tell them that it is not POSSIBLE, they still want to argue about it. Some tell me I am a bad, horrible person because I have specific tastes; they call me names. Names are fun, aren't they? I get called "shallow," which I suppose has some merit. I get called "selfish" because I don't want to bring another miserable, unhappy kid into the world -- so I guess it's the "noble" thing to do, to be a bad parent, AS LONG AS you're a parent! OK, I don't get that, but whatever.... I wouldn't be a good parent; I know that, I acknowledge it. That's WHY I will never be one.... |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Mon 04/13/09 02:02 PM
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I know Lex's pain too. If someone reads my profile and is not my type, they take that as personal rejection -- just from READING only!
Melody, I'm glad you brought this up -- because it's something I have a hard time comprehending -- How is it that some people automatically equate "Sorry, you're not my type" with "Sorry, but you're automatically a terrible person"? I mean, where does THAT come from? I never put anyone down for not being my type -- I'd have to put down 183% of all the women in the world, and I'm just too tired to do that today -- all I'm saying is I want what I want, I don't want what I don't want, and I'm not going to just change my entire value system out of the blue because one person says "You're completely wrong and you need to change everything you believe and give me a chance." It's not like I just randomly made up my preferences and standards -- they're BASED on things -- past experiences, mostly; bad situations I simply don't want to repeat and relive. I'm sure a LOT of people have those -- not the same ones I've had, but still.... I don't try to change anyone's preferences. I figure they're there for a reason. It's not my job to tell anybody that their preferences are wrong. How the hell would I know?
I love your words! I don't want to change anyone either; live and let live!
Since very few actually read my profile and see that I don't want kids, I added the Breeder Bingo card to my pix. That has helped a lot in getting the message across!! It's very tongue and cheek and not meant to offend! Not any more than offensive than people trying to convince me to have kids anyway! 
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lol.. not too sure why any body would want to argue about what have wrote down on your profile etc. Heck I am not even too sure what to write any more on my profile, so I just shorten it. Usually it's about my personal preferences -- why I should consider dating someone who is diametrically opposed to every one of my standards -- hell, if I wanted to do that, I could have stayed married.... That's just crazy. disputting something over some one personal preferenes. |
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I think I am the loner of the site. I mean I used to try and write others but never got any where so I just given up. Some people might take a look at my profile then say noting at all. No big deal since every body does it at least on this site. Dunno of any other sites like this. They look at mine and then they want to argue about it! Which is OK, proves they're paying attention at least.... lol.. not too sure why any body would want to argue about what have wrote down on your profile etc. Heck I am not even too sure what to write any more on my profile, so I just shorten it. I know Lex's pain too. If someone reads my profile and is not my type, they take that as personal rejection -- just from READING only!
I always have guys trying to argue with me about my profile and what my tastes are in men. They try to change my mind -- tell me they will change my mind about having kids! WTF?
Some tell me I am a bad, horrible person because I have specific tastes; they call me names. All that does is prove that I am happy with my expectations. Anyone who would act this way is NOT stable or functional in dealing with social situations. I can't imagine how miserable a relationship would be with a person that gets so defensive they act like a 5 year old!
There lost. I mean hey if you didn't want something in some guy etc then you wouldn't be happy. So I can understand where your coming from on that. |
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so... he messaged me... LOL said he was at work . ;p
then laughed at me. he's very cute.... *blushes* heh. |
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so... he messaged me... LOL said he was at work . ;p then laughed at me. he's very cute.... *blushes* heh. Awwwww 
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