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Topic: Presentation + assumption
Hotchikita's photo
Mon 05/07/07 12:11 PM
or mabe he just needs to have some rum.drinker drinker laugh

PetiteKitten's photo
Mon 05/07/07 12:12 PM
I don't have any slutty pix up...............Right? LOL

Hotchikita's photo
Mon 05/07/07 12:13 PM
no wife those are in the photo album.laugh

purplecat's photo
Mon 05/07/07 12:14 PM
well ,,talk about makin yourself look like an idiot !!noway
the post is about judging people ,,and that judging poeple is not a good
thing ,, and the guy stuffs his foot ,,or shall I say whole friggin leg
in his mouth ,,jeez ,, some one has mother figure issues or something ,,
there judged that bozo ...I'm done ,, oh wait ,,actions speak louder
then pictures FOOL >sir ,,HA no manners ,,should drop the sir on the tag
there dude..


.ok ..now I'm done ,


,poof and he'z a ball off shti..noway

tantalizingtulip's photo
Mon 05/07/07 12:23 PM
yep purple cat he has issues embarassed

no photo
Mon 05/07/07 12:31 PM
I wasn't talking about anyone who posted under this topic. Just look
around...

Women who show their breasts or men you take pictures without their
shirts on....

I highly doubt those people are looking for anything significant even
though they say they might be.
Judgemental yes, or is it just experiencial psychology?

tantalizingtulip's photo
Mon 05/07/07 04:23 PM
oh please that is not always the case sir auther..


shame on you for passing judgements nothing to back it up but PHOTOS!


thats really SAD>!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PetiteKitten's photo
Mon 05/07/07 04:25 PM
*Walks in and then walks right back out*

no photo
Mon 05/07/07 04:25 PM
Hey if you can judge a book by its cover ..

You're a better man (woman) than me laugh

tantalizingtulip's photo
Mon 05/07/07 05:13 PM
noway noway noway noway devil devil devil devil

no photo
Mon 05/07/07 05:19 PM
hahaha cute...

What? If someone posts expicit pictures of themselves online to the
public on a dating website...

then yes I WILL pass judgement on them.

I have no problem with people sharing nude pictures of each other
privately.

To do that online for everyone to see is another thing entirely and
tells me the quality of their person.

Jess642's photo
Mon 05/07/07 05:36 PM
Firstly...what other people think of me, is none of my business, until
they choose to tell me...

(I am good at mind reading, but sheesh..I left my crystal ball in my
other handbag.)laugh


Secondly, 'they' can judge me all 'they' like, doesn't mean I have to
agree with them...

if anything, I say thankyou...for showing me who you are.

no photo
Mon 05/07/07 05:41 PM
All I am saying is if someone shows his or her breasts on a public
website for the whole world to see people WILL judge him or her and he
or she deserve that judgement.

They essentially bring it on themselves. True, it is a free country and
anyone can show your cleavage anywhere, but people must deal with the
consequences of those actions.

If someone posts pictures of themselves in an explicit manner, then they
should expect comments like, "Niice Tits," or "Hey baby you wanna get
together tonight." They should expect it and NOT complain because they
are bringing it on themselves.

People need to take responsibility for what they do and not blame
others.

tantalizingtulip's photo
Mon 05/07/07 05:46 PM
what ifs????????????????????noway noway noway noway noway
noway


yes lee,


I do not think it is my business what others think, as my mom explained
that to me as a young girlbigsmile

no photo
Mon 05/07/07 09:20 PM
I TRY NOT TO JUDGE AND ID LIKE TO NOT BE JUDGED! huh

SORRY TO SAY I AM GUILTY THO AND I KINDA SEE WHERE KING IS COMING FROM.
ITS LIKE A GAL THAT LIVES BY ME..SHE SLEEPS WITH EVERYTHING THAT WALKS
BUT SAYS SHES LOOKING FOR A NICE GUY TO SETTLE WITH..HMMMM....IF I WAS A
GUY I WOULDNT WANT HER.....SHED BE ALL USED UP! EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWsick
sick sick

JUST MY OPINION THOUGH!bigsmile

((((((((((PURPLE))))))))))))) :heart:

no photo
Tue 05/08/07 08:57 AM
Thank you Nascar. There is some sanity left in the world

Kevin3824's photo
Tue 05/08/07 03:15 PM
One of the sayings I heard a few years ago was that you never need to
explain yourself to anyone because your friends don't need it and your
enemys won't believe it anyhow.

I personally like that statement alot and it helps me out regularly.

I have seen alot of pretty ladies in my time and most times I am afraid
to pursue them as I do not have a high self esteem myself of my
appearance.

As I have been married previously I have decided that appearence matters
very little in a relationship. I believe communication and understanding
are far more important features in a person to look for.

Based on this I have found that I seek people who like the same things
as I do and think like I do to be a better match for me in general.

While I hope that the one I truely love will be attractive on the
outside if they are not that is ok as well as long as our love is
genuine for each other that is what counts. I would also like for that
person to have the same interests and kinks as I do but that is the
selfish part of me comming out.

That is how I determine the difference between a sex partner and a
loving relationship as well. The two are quite different.

Take it for what is is worth but that is how I see it.

NomDiPlume's photo
Tue 05/08/07 03:50 PM
Wow, trust the guy with the chivalric login ... Ok, Sir, you clearly
are talking to me, since I'm one of those "whores" who don't mind being
seen shirtless online.

A few possible responses:
First, I'm 5'6", wordy, and socialize with the geek crowd. As such,
taking pride in my appearance is still relatively new to me. And yes,
I'm damn proud of my abs. I earned them, after all.

Second, I tend to trust that anyone who reads farther than my headline,
or any of my posts for that matter, is going to get the picture that I'm
hardly a vapid sex-toy.

Third, I would personally be deeply ashamed to own a post like yours,
and you do seem to object to being judged by it. But then, you
EXPLICITLY AND IN AS MANY WORDS created the impression that you are
shallow, judgemental, and angry. See why it's not smart to judge?

Native_Grl39's photo
Tue 05/08/07 04:00 PM
If I were to post my breasts...UMMMM would that mean that I am a ho?????














I hardly think so...Since I havent even dated in 5 years...OH but you
wouldn't know that cause you were too busy judging me according to a
picture...Sirjudgealot!!!!!!!!!!!


You also wouldnt know that I love people...especially kids, animals and
would do anything for anyone and work my a** off just to make sure my
kids can have the best life possible!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


HMMMMMM bet ya never would have guessed all that from a
pic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



huh huh huh huh

What ever pic I choose to post...doesn't neccesarily reflect the real
me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

no photo
Tue 05/08/07 09:33 PM
Wow, the world has reached a new low.

People now justifying taking pictures shirtless. Why don't you act like
you have some decency. Show a little class, thats all I ask.

Stop being so self-absorbed, it is quite narcissistic to post pictures
online of themselves so provocatively. What happened to tact?

The people who do show such pictures though may be loving, though may be
a bunch of things...but can easily fit into a self-absorbed,
narcissistic category...

Not something I want, now you can claim that you aren't and make a
buynch of drama, but you aren't fooling me and certainly not yourself.

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