to stop doubting myself when I'm right, and being sure of myself when I'm wrong. It gets annoying. I tend to over complicate the simplest things, and over simplify the most complicated things. I take "the scenic route" when it comes to problem solving. I don't know where I'm going with this, but...

I can relate.

i think ihave that syndrome too, is there a name for it?

There probably is, but I'd have to do alot of research to find out.

We're the people bosses hate and never get promoted...

Just grab it and go!!!

I don't think my bosses hate me, but I would never get promoted. I just go to work to work. I don't want to socialize and make friends at work. I just want to get work done, get my check, and leave. I guess if I were more social at work, I could get promoted, but if that's the case, it's not worth it. It takes alot of effort and energy for to be social, which is why I'm not really all that social. In a way, you kinda have to earn my socialization with you, simply because it's pretty hard for me to be social.

I can understand that, I mean look at you, you're a cat!

But, Iz can tipe on keybordz!

What are you talking about silly. Cat's are social.

Cats are my favorite creatures, they are very mysterious and misunderstood, they remind me alot of myself.

Stop reading into things. go with your gut. It's OK to make mistakes, that's how we learn and everything is fixable.

You are creating much more stress than you need to for yourself. Step back, take a breath, then move forward once again.

Learn to laugh at yourself and let people know that you are only human. It really works...I live it everyday!

totage, allmost two month's ago I got a roommate. My small female keep's attacking her big 11 yr. old male. WHY???????????

You sir are not alone

Yep, you gotta let it go, it's so easy go get caught up with that, we all can do it from time to time, I don't dare try to do it at work, I can hear the snickers after all is said and done..and since I don't have a college education, the college people are like, oh god, listen to her trying to be smart, so I know when to quit..I can catch myself..you got to say ok this is good enough, and then that;s it..cause it usually is good enough..did i just say all that.?? lol

When I got my cat, we alread had an older female cat in the house, she did not get along with my cat at all, she always hissed and growled at him. He would try to play with her, but she didn't like that at all. The funny thing was, that when we were away, we would always find them sleeping together.

When my sister took in my cat for a while, she had two cats, they got along with my cat great, all three would play together and have fun.

Most of the time cats don't get along due to territory issues, maybe try placing them in the same room together for a while. Make sure they each have their own things, some cats don't like to share. Are they both "fixed"? if not, it would be a good idea to get that done.

Placing the cats in the same area helped a little bit with my cats, but the older female never did like my cat, some cats just can't get along with others. Also, once my male cat was neutered, he was less aggressive.

This article might help.
http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=A&S=0&C=0&A=1750

Also:
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=Two+Cats+in+One+Home&aq=f&oq=

This topic may have changed my life a little. (lol honestly)
See after reading it not much changed. But later I found myself over-complicating a simple (yet heart-wrenching) problem in my life. I immediately thought of what you wrote and how it related to my mental process. That moment I was able to turn it off because I recognized what I was doing. All thanks to you...

Thank you.

yeah I do the same thing. By the way nice lookin stang ianeric

Thank ya!