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Topic: assuming the position:)
jacksondad's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:11 PM
I'm kind of new to all of this.

markc48's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:15 PM
Stay off my turflaugh

longislandangel's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:17 PM
Welcome to Mingle!

jacksondad's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:19 PM
thank's, nice to be here I think:)

itry's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:19 PM
Well ,since you are in the positionlove ...Only kidding ,Welcomedrinker

jacksondad's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:21 PM
I figured if I was gong to take a beating.....ya know

Holly4459's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:22 PM

Stay off my turflaugh


:laughing:

jacksondad's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:24 PM
afraid the young guy will take overlaugh

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Mon 04/06/09 04:34 PM
Your picture is very blurry. Add a few clear ones. Use your profile to tell us about yourself.

markc48's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:39 PM
Edited by markc48 on Mon 04/06/09 04:40 PM

afraid the young guy will take overlaugh
you may be younger but you look olderlaugh and I don't have 5 kids.laugh

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Mon 04/06/09 04:39 PM
Welcome and Good Luck....Have Fun.flowers

jacksondad's photo
Mon 04/06/09 04:44 PM
Edited by jacksondad on Mon 04/06/09 04:47 PM
Thats just because your eye sight is badgrumble
and I'm very proud of my kid's!

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Mon 04/06/09 04:58 PM

Thats just because your eye sight is badgrumble
and I'm very proud of my kid's!


My eyesight? Nah. You asked for suggestions and I gave you suggestions.

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 04/06/09 05:38 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Mon 04/06/09 05:45 PM

Thats just because your eye sight is badgrumble
and I'm very proud of my kid's!


I agree with Emily. The main pic you have is not flattering. You should use a pic that shows you smiling. A happy face will attract a happy person. Your other pix are a little -- excuse the pun -- militant; therefore, a more welcoming pic will balance you.

Your profile contains nothing that would inspire someone to contact you. What interests do you have? What type of girl are you interested in meeting? A profile is about marketing yourself. The more effort you apply, the better your results.

You already indicated in your stats that you have kids, so there is no reason to mention them -- and as your only interest. Dating is not about your kids (at first). Your kids shouldn't be a part of your dating life until you become serious about someone.

Your profile should focus on you and what you can bring to the table for an interested member. Why lose your identity in being a parent? Balance is the key -- having a lot of hobbies -- because not all women want a one-dimentional thinker. Besides, you have already tunneled yourself into being a 'dad' by your username.

I'm sure you are proud of your kids. I don't think that was the point in Emily's suggestion.

Remember, you asked for opinions. You have to be prepared for all of the answers and not just the answers you want to hear. winking

Enjoy Mingle! flowers

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Mon 04/06/09 05:56 PM
Yay Michigan!!

Chat Global, Date Local.


Welcome and have fun.

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Mon 04/06/09 05:57 PM
I believe he was being playfully sarcastic when he said her eyesight was bad...

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Mon 04/06/09 06:02 PM

I believe he was being playfully sarcastic when he said her eyesight was bad...



I believe he was replying to markc48...slaphead

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 04/06/09 06:05 PM


I believe he was being playfully sarcastic when he said her eyesight was bad...



I believe he was replying to markc48...slaphead


Yeah, it's hard to tell when peeps don't use the quote feature. spock

Oh well .... eh? :angel:

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Mon 04/06/09 06:08 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Mon 04/06/09 06:08 PM


Thats just because your eye sight is badgrumble
and I'm very proud of my kid's!


I agree with Emily. The main pic you have is not flattering. You should use a pic that shows you smiling. A happy face will attract a happy person. Your other pix are a little -- excuse the pun -- militant; therefore, a more welcoming pic will balance you.

Your profile contains nothing that would inspire someone to contact you. What interests do you have? What type of girl are you interested in meeting? A profile is about marketing yourself. The more effort you apply, the better your results.

You already indicated in your stats that you have kids, so there is no reason to mention them -- and as your only interest. Dating is not about your kids (at first). Your kids shouldn't be a part of your dating life until you become serious about someone.

Your profile should focus on you and what you can bring to the table for an interested member. Why lose your identity in being a parent? Balance is the key -- having a lot of hobbies -- because not all women want a one-dimentional thinker. Besides, you have already tunneled yourself into being a 'dad' by your username.

I'm sure you are proud of your kids. I don't think that was the point in Emily's suggestion.

Remember, you asked for opinions. You have to be prepared for all of the answers and not just the answers you want to hear. winking

Enjoy Mingle! flowers


He has added other pictures since I made the suggestion. When I said add clearer pictures, he had one blurry one.

Melody gives good advice. Listen to her :smile:.

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Mon 04/06/09 06:09 PM


I believe he was being playfully sarcastic when he said her eyesight was bad...



I believe he was replying to markc48...slaphead


Hard to tell who he was replying to, as he didn't quote that person. Hard to tell if he's joking or not, as he's made 7 posts, so I have no idea what his sense of humor is like.

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