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Topic: never to soon
Larry1983's photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:11 AM
to have a good profile. any pointers or opinions are appreciated bigsmile

no photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:15 AM
Best advice is the advice I just got ---- post pictures where they can see your face and be "straight up with what you're looking for" in your "profile"....Like "close ups" I guess? I dunno I'm still working on it myself

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:16 AM
Take your kid off and talk about you.

Read other profiles, 'cus IMO yours needs a wicked lot of work. You look pissed off in your pic and a shot without a hat is really needed.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:17 AM

to have a good profile. any pointers or opinions are appreciated bigsmile
drool more skindrool

Larry1983's photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:33 AM
Edited by Larry1983 on Fri 04/03/09 11:34 AM
ok, added a few more pictures. took off my daughter(i thought i should be upfront about having a child). im a basic person, not good with details so much frustrated so what should i say about myself...forgive me for being a male laugh ohwell


MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:35 AM

ok, added a few more pictures. took off my daughter(i thought i should be upfront about having a child). im a basic person, not good with details so much frustrated so what should i say about myself...forgive me for being a male laugh ohwell


smitten You're forgiven if I am forgivensmitten

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:36 AM
There is a section to check off if you have kids. Dating is about YOU. What do you want to know about someone else? write that info in about yourself. It's not rocket science. Trust me, you guys make it hard.

Larry1983's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:11 PM
ok i added more info, but you have a lot lilith, im not so creative so i hope this is up to par embarassed

no photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:14 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Fri 04/03/09 12:14 PM
You say you've been separated for 8 months, but then you have "never married" checked. Which is it?

Larry1983's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:16 PM
i never been married, separated from the mother of my daughter. you could say broke up but it was almost marriage.

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:17 PM

ok i added more info, but you have a lot lilith, im not so creative so i hope this is up to par embarassed


It's not about creativity. It's about being me and articulating that. Expressing my personality....

no photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:17 PM
Maybe leave that part out. It sounds a bit confusing.

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:19 PM
Oh my .... you added more but I don't have anything nice to say about it.

Good luck.

I also realized you don't have a hat on... not sure why I thought you did. Sorry about that. But you do look so pissed off you're going beat the crap out of someone.

Larry1983's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:23 PM
ok, i will remove that part. ty

still nothing nice huh....you new englanders are a tough crowd flowerforyou laugh

i thought you were talking about the other guy ohwell

i dont know why but i have always looked like that embarassed i have 1 or 2 with a smile but not sure if i want those to be seen laugh

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:25 PM
Read what you wrote out loud.

Imagine you are reading it about someone else... what does it convey?

Larry1983's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:28 PM
i dont have any wow factor, simple and basic embarassed frustrated

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:33 PM
I have a 1 1/2 year old daughter, her name is Rosalynn. Been single for about 8 months and decided its time to put myself back out there.


You left the relationship while the child was young. TMI for profiles.... It would honestly keep most women from talking... at least me.

I'm looking for more of a friendship in the beginning, I'm not sure I'm ready to get real serious real fast.

I am not at all sure what I want. I might have sex with you though, but I might cut and run at any time....

I have a job, i work 3rd shift. im a mamas boy you could say, but not as bad as some guys. i like to eat, my favorite food is b-b-q ribs. i could eat it 7 times a week if possible.

I will chose my mother over you, if she doesn't like you I will dump you, I expect you to take care of me.

i believe in karma, so i try to be as good a person as i can daily. i also believe that behind every good man is a great woman. its hard at least for me to live up to my potential with out one. i am i am average by myself, but with her i can be great.


I need a woman to make me feel whole, as I'm broken without a relationship. Fact is, I'm sort of lazy without a controlling strong woman (like my mother) to tell me what to do and when to do it. I don't have the motivation to be as good without someone to impress.

Anything else you would like to know just ask.

I'm too lazy to write anything more.

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:33 PM
This is just what I read....

Larry1983's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:41 PM
damn, maybe i should stick to a blank page embarassed

lilith401's photo
Fri 04/03/09 12:43 PM

damn, maybe i should stick to a blank page embarassed


No, what you need to do is think carefully and write for the reader.

I'm betting I'm not too far off on a lot of this.

Don't worry, it's my job....laugh

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