Topic: Esteem and Hapiness
Peccy's photo
Thu 04/02/09 10:20 PM
Can one exist without the other?

Jess642's photo
Thu 04/02/09 10:37 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Thu 04/02/09 10:38 PM
Hmmm...esteem....?

External? Like a job, status, money , power...like prestige?

Or self esteem?

Those who I know in my world with great authentic self esteem, are incredibly content...balanced people.

I cannot see how someone can have contentment, or 'happiness'...with low or poor self esteem.

writer_gurl's photo
Thu 04/02/09 10:47 PM
IDK....can it?huh

I don't think sonoway

no photo
Fri 04/03/09 01:11 AM
I think they can...

If ya mean esteem like...My "esteemed" colleague 'Beau' is well known by his coworkers for all of the great work he has done here at Minge2.com.

Just because 'Beau' has done a lot of work, and is well known for it. Doesn't make him happy....Correct? Or do I just need to go to bed and did I jump right over what you were saying?

I probably did.

Goodnight

AngieH79's photo
Fri 04/03/09 10:05 PM
In my experience, no.

I'm much happier now that I've realized how drop-dead gorgeous I am. :laughing:

no photo
Fri 04/03/09 11:58 PM
Hmmmmmmmmm Maslow would know but then again I often say Maslow was full of crap anyways!!!noway

Jess642's photo
Sat 04/04/09 12:53 AM
Hahahaha! Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs???

I want to know what comes after self-actualisation...


god?

laugh

no photo
Sat 04/04/09 12:53 AM

Hahahaha! Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs???

I want to know what comes after self-actualisation...


god?

laugh
Ive questioned maslow so many times.......I believe its all bull crap!!!slaphead

Jess642's photo
Sat 04/04/09 12:59 AM
I see the parallels...in clients, and it is a great 'reference point' to guage where they are at...however, like Freud....we have grown up a bit since their time... and also our societal disorders are quite unique to this ever evolving rapid pace society.

Suppression is less, self help is way more....and the more people allow themselves to be labelled, the more their dis-orders can reek havoc on their perception of themselves.


I still wanna know what comes after self actualisation...


insanity? huh

no photo
Sat 04/04/09 01:50 AM
Death.......

fundog1962's photo
Sat 04/04/09 02:01 AM
thats a awesome????

fundog1962's photo
Sat 04/04/09 02:03 AM

Can one exist without the other?
we all have to find a way to love one another!!!