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Topic: Lying
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Thu 04/02/09 07:39 PM
I hate liars -- yet I can tolerate them if they admit their lies. Am I crazy? Let me explain. So, you lie to me, blantantly or otherwise and then I find out. I confront you, usually I do it as casually as possible, and you do not tell me that is worse than lying. That is like lying 10 times. BUT if I confront you and you admit you lied, its okay. And I mean it could be lying about cheating on me. It doesn't matter. I feel satisfied that I found out and confronted you and YOU admited it to me. So more or less. If someone lies they get one chance. One buy out. One get out of jail free card.

And to be honest....no one has ever taken it.

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Thu 04/02/09 07:42 PM
Edited by trsmith22 on Thu 04/02/09 07:44 PM
I don't like liars either. But can we really change people?
Nope, we just have to go on and live our lives without them

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Thu 04/02/09 07:43 PM
Someone lies to me...there are no second chances...

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Thu 04/02/09 07:44 PM

I hate liars -- yet I can tolerate them if they admit their lies. Am I crazy? Let me explain. So, you lie to me, blantantly or otherwise and then I find out. I confront you, usually I do it as casually as possible, and you do not tell me that is worse than lying. That is like lying 10 times. BUT if I confront you and you admit you lied, its okay. And I mean it could be lying about cheating on me. It doesn't matter. I feel satisfied that I found out and confronted you and YOU admited it to me. So more or less. If someone lies they get one chance. One buy out. One get out of jail free card.

And to be honest....no one has ever taken it.
:angel: I have never told a liepitchfork

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Thu 04/02/09 07:44 PM
Liars.....


Don't like em

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Thu 04/02/09 07:45 PM

Someone lies to me...there are no second chances...

I agree, why bother all they'll do is lie again. Not worth the drama.

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Thu 04/02/09 07:46 PM

I hate liars -- yet I can tolerate them if they admit their lies. Am I crazy? Let me explain. So, you lie to me, blantantly or otherwise and then I find out. I confront you, usually I do it as casually as possible, and you do not tell me that is worse than lying. That is like lying 10 times. BUT if I confront you and you admit you lied, its okay. And I mean it could be lying about cheating on me. It doesn't matter. I feel satisfied that I found out and confronted you and YOU admited it to me. So more or less. If someone lies they get one chance. One buy out. One get out of jail free card.

And to be honest....no one has ever taken it.


So in other words, if you had a mate and they cheated on you and admitted it...you would forgive them and everything would be alright? Then you would give them another chance? If this is the way I am understanding you....WOW, you are way to easy!!!

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Thu 04/02/09 08:08 PM


I hate liars -- yet I can tolerate them if they admit their lies. Am I crazy? Let me explain. So, you lie to me, blantantly or otherwise and then I find out. I confront you, usually I do it as casually as possible, and you do not tell me that is worse than lying. That is like lying 10 times. BUT if I confront you and you admit you lied, its okay. And I mean it could be lying about cheating on me. It doesn't matter. I feel satisfied that I found out and confronted you and YOU admited it to me. So more or less. If someone lies they get one chance. One buy out. One get out of jail free card.

And to be honest....no one has ever taken it.


So in other words, if you had a mate and they cheated on you and admitted it...you would forgive them and everything would be alright? Then you would give them another chance? If this is the way I am understanding you....WOW, you are way to easy!!!


Well..the point of the next line "And to be honest...no one has ever taken it." was to be dramatic with it...a kind of dramatic writer'esque' kind of thing like..I say this now, but I havent had anyone ever really take that chance I say I am offering....So I haven't seen if anyone would do it so I don't know if I would forgive them, per se, but I wouldn't be as mad if I found out 3 months later. Kind of like, if ya cheat on me, tell me when I find out and I'll let ya get your stuff and ya won't find it on the ground dropped 3 stories. Which is what prob happens when I gave ya that chance when I found out and asked you and you didn't tell me. Ya know what I mean? But like I said, nobody ever takes that "get out of jail free" card anyways.

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Thu 04/02/09 08:15 PM
Liars, cheaters and thieves.....no use for them.

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Thu 04/02/09 08:21 PM
maybe thier afraid of that damn snake.

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Thu 04/02/09 08:24 PM
It's fascinating watching people lie...when a drama plays out, and more and more people get involved...and then someone confronts the original lie....they all fold like a pack of cards..deflecting blame to anyone but themselves.

Even when someone accuses you of something...and you outright say yep... I did/said that.... they are uncomfortable...as if they were waiting for a lie.

If everyone owned their own behaviours...acknowledged when they are less than honourable... the lack of drama would be wonderful.

I find it fascinating how few are courageous enough to be responsible for themselves.

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Thu 04/02/09 08:45 PM

Liars, cheaters and thieves.....no use for them.

I agree 100%

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Thu 04/02/09 08:46 PM

I hate liars -- yet I can tolerate them if they admit their lies. Am I crazy? Let me explain. So, you lie to me, blantantly or otherwise and then I find out. I confront you, usually I do it as casually as possible, and you do not tell me that is worse than lying. That is like lying 10 times. BUT if I confront you and you admit you lied, its okay. And I mean it could be lying about cheating on me. It doesn't matter. I feel satisfied that I found out and confronted you and YOU admited it to me. So more or less. If someone lies they get one chance. One buy out. One get out of jail free card.

And to be honest....no one has ever taken it.


That is because liars think lying is the only way out....lol

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Thu 04/02/09 10:07 PM
NOTHING worse than lying about a lie

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Fri 04/03/09 09:49 AM
<~~~~~ just got done bein' played by a liar on another site...explode

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Fri 04/03/09 09:53 AM
Oh I love it when people lie to me. slaphead

I also like drama, selfish behavior, and stealing.

slaphead slaphead slaphead slaphead slaphead slaphead

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Fri 04/03/09 09:54 AM
I have no time for liars. They lie to me once and they are gone. Its too bad too......but they have to live with themselves. I dont!!noway

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Fri 04/03/09 10:04 AM
They should ALL die slow, horrible, painful deaths & burn in hell for all eternity!explode

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Fri 04/03/09 10:05 AM

They should ALL die slow, horrible, painful deaths & burn in hell for all eternity!explode


I take it you've never told a lie?

Don't forget the burn cream.... solorcaine might explode.

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Fri 04/03/09 10:08 AM
Yea......I have......But I never did it to where it tore someone down & messed with their emotions & broke their friggin' hearts.

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