ne advice. I've been broken up from my x for over 3-4 months about i think. Ne way she left me, but she still comes to me wanting to talk. ALso i know her well, she can't hide her facial expressions if she doesn't like you, you can tell. When she talks to me she still has that same sweet angelic look on her face like she loves me. What does that mean. She still talks to me like i am her bf, but she doesn't want to get back together i'm confused. I kinda just want to be left alone from her completley, but i stil love her and it's hard to keep away. I guess she is just playing games?

Tell her to go choke on a tire. It's obvious she doesn't know what she wants and she's gonna keep wasting your time with her crap. You're better off just telling her to get lost once and for all. It's just not worth continuing to talk to her.

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Yeah, I kinda do. I've also had to deal with the headgames from past relationships, as well. The more you let that crap linger, the more it'll continue. You gotta cut that crap out like a cancer, as it won't do you any good.

Change your number. Lock your door. Tell her "Bye".

You are training her how to treat you. If you allow her to return and rely on you for comfort without the benefit of a relationship then she will feel it is OK.

You have two choices:

1. Allow her to continue, ask her what her motive is for this behavior and make the decision to allow it to continue or not.

2. Tell her it is too hurtful to continue to see her under these circumstances and ask her to respect your feelings and stop.

Some people simply cannot be 'alone'. When they leave a relationship, they try to keep an 'insurance policy' for themselves. Sounds as if she may be keeping the door open to return to you in case something (enjoying a single life or a another relationship) else doesn't work out for her. Do you want to be someone's 'insurance', or do you want to be someone's most favorite person? Seems like remaining connected to her is like picking a scab...it's going to take much longer for your heart to heal.