Topic: How do you handle...
JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:03 PM
... an ex boyfriend/girlfriend who refuses to let go and accept the fact that you do not ever want to get back together with him/her?

...who continually calls you up even months after the relationship has been over to tell you (s)he's changed and says (s)he will never give up because (s)he think (s)he loves you.

...??

huh

slushpuppie86's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:05 PM
i know how to handle a psycho ex bf you tell them that you have moved on and your dating a deputy sheriff lol that usually makes them leave ya alone!

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:06 PM

... an ex boyfriend/girlfriend who refuses to let go and accept the fact that you do not ever want to get back together with him/her?

...who continually calls you up even months after the relationship has been over to tell you (s)he's changed and says (s)he will never give up because (s)he think (s)he loves you.

...??

huh
:smile: restraining order:smile:

tracey1020's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:06 PM
restraining order! LOL

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:06 PM

... an ex boyfriend/girlfriend who refuses to let go and accept the fact that you do not ever want to get back together with him/her?

...who continually calls you up even months after the relationship has been over to tell you (s)he's changed and says (s)he will never give up because (s)he think (s)he loves you.

...??

huh

It happened to me once. I ended up finally just telling him I had met someone. It ended there.

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:07 PM

i know how to handle a psycho ex bf you tell them that you have moved on and your dating a deputy sheriff lol that usually makes them leave ya alone!


i'm dating a security guard... and that doesnt help much lol

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:08 PM
Tell them you have another and, NEVER speak another word to them. Each time you do, you invite more of them into your life.

TessMac's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:10 PM

... an ex boyfriend/girlfriend who refuses to let go and accept the fact that you do not ever want to get back together with him/her?

...who continually calls you up even months after the relationship has been over to tell you (s)he's changed and says (s)he will never give up because (s)he think (s)he loves you.

...??

huh

Restraining Order

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:10 PM
Let him catch you in bed with some other dude.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:10 PM

Tell them you have another and, NEVER speak another word to them. Each time you do, you invite more of them into your life.

Very true!

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:11 PM

Tell them you have another and, NEVER speak another word to them. Each time you do, you invite more of them into your life.


its kinda hard not to speak to him. he lives three houses down the road from me... ohwell


Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:12 PM


Tell them you have another and, NEVER speak another word to them. Each time you do, you invite more of them into your life.


its kinda hard not to speak to him. he lives three houses down the road from me... ohwell



How bad is this situation. Is he just calling you once every few months or more often?

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:13 PM

restraining order! LOL


erm....

its not that big of a deal. just a mild annoyance rather than something criminal...

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:16 PM



Tell them you have another and, NEVER speak another word to them. Each time you do, you invite more of them into your life.


its kinda hard not to speak to him. he lives three houses down the road from me... ohwell



How bad is this situation. Is he just calling you once every few months or more often?


um he would go a month or two without contacting me but then if he sees me on a particular day then he'll call me up everyday for a while trying to get me to hang out with him, ask why i dont call him, and tell me he still loves me...

as long as i stay out of sight i stay out of mind. but i dont always succeed in that.

no photo
Sat 03/28/09 02:34 PM
Having had this happen to me. I get calls from an ex every couple of months saying how much they missed me and they love me... And at one time I even considered it. But logic and rational won out. I saw her for what she is.. a physcotic (sp) biotch... hot then cold.

All I can say is just quit taking their calls . And if you do, be firm say its over Its not important the reasons why or even who chose to end it. Be firm say its over and just hang up.

Redshirt's photo
Sat 03/28/09 05:05 PM

... an ex boyfriend/girlfriend who refuses to let go and accept the fact that you do not ever want to get back together with him/her?

...who continually calls you up even months after the relationship has been over to tell you (s)he's changed and says (s)he will never give up because (s)he think (s)he loves you.

...??

huh


Don't respond. Don't answer the phone if it is them. Don't respond to any text messages. Don't answer their e-mail. Keep records though. That way if they continue it has become harassment and a restraining order is easier to get. Then when it starts costing them money they might get the message.

no photo
Sat 03/28/09 05:06 PM

Let him catch you in bed with some other dude.



that is soooo wrong :tongue:

Mayhem_J's photo
Sat 03/28/09 05:15 PM


Let him catch you in bed with some other dude.



that is soooo wrong :tongue:


Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.

TJN's photo
Sat 03/28/09 05:16 PM
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