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Topic: love ?
southerntouch's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:49 AM
Ok if you were in a relationship with someone that loved you but you were not in love with.would you stay or go?

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:50 AM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Sat 03/28/09 09:51 AM
depends how good looking she is shocked shocked shocked

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

j/k i don't think i could do itflowerforyou flowerforyou

talldub's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:53 AM

Ok if you were in a relationship with someone that loved you but you were not in love with.would you stay or go?
I've been in this situation a few times and i've tried in some cases to stay, to see if my feelings would change, they didn't. I think, ultimately, if you know you don't love them and never will then go, give them a chance to meet someone that can return their love.

TBRich's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:54 AM
Darling you gotta let me know
Should I stay or should I go?
If you say that you are mine
Ill be here til the end of time
So you got to let know
Should I stay or should I go?

Always tease tease tease
Siempre - coqetiando y enganyando
Youre happy when Im on my knees
Me arrodilla y estas feliz
One day is fine, next is black
Un dias bien el otro negro
So if you want me off your back
Al rededar en tu espalda
Well come on and let me know
Me tienes que desir
Should I stay or should I go?
Me debo ir o que darme

Should I stay or should I go now?
Should I stay or should I go now?
If I go there will be trouble
An if I stay it will be double
So come on and let me know

This indecisions bugging me
Esta undecision me molesta
If you dont want me, set me free
Si no me quieres, librame
Exactly whom Im supposed to be
Diga me que tengo ser
Dont you know which clothes even fit me?
saves que robas me querda?
Come on and let me know
Me tienes que desir
Should I cool it or should I blow?
me debo ir o quedarme?

Should I stay or should I go now?
yo me frio o lo sophlo?
If I go there will be trouble
Si me voi - va ver peligro
And if I stay it will be double
Si me quedo es doble
So you gotta let me know
Me tienes que decir
Should I stay or should I go?
yo me frio o lo sophlo?

TBRich's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:54 AM
I noticed that I post song lyrics when I have nothing to add to the conversation, is that annoying?

Emily1117's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:56 AM
I would stay and try to work out.

Maybe it would change.

grneyedldy1967's photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:58 AM
I could not stay... why be with someone you don't love.. not only are you cheating yourself but them as well!

no photo
Sat 03/28/09 09:59 AM

Ok if you were in a relationship with someone that loved you but you were not in love with.would you stay or go?


Is this a trick question?......laugh

Unfortunately, what you get to know about someone, over-rides most of the good qualities they may have. I would not, could not, maintain a relationship where it was not right, for either party.

I have a track record to prove it......slaphead smile2

Foliel's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:00 AM
I would leave as it isn't fair to either of us if i stay.

southerntouch's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:00 AM
Im thinking after 19 years it is not going to change.

TessMac's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:02 AM

Im thinking after 19 years it is not going to change.

It won't and life is to short. Let them find someone they can love and who will honestly love them back.

southerntouch's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:03 AM
Im thinking after 19 years it is not going to change.
There was 2 kids to raise but now there grown

southerntouch's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:04 AM
Im thinking after 19 years it is not going to change.
There was 2 kids to raise but now there grown

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:06 AM

Im thinking after 19 years it is not going to change.
There was 2 kids to raise but now there grown


You committed yourself to this person. How can you just walk away after 19 years. People change and grow and your love should too. It's too easy to give up and walk away.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:21 AM
I could tell you stories . But I wo'nt. It's up to each couple to decide I guess as long as they are on the same page .But if one or the other does'nt know tell or get off the pot !

MirrorMirror's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:22 AM

Ok if you were in a relationship with someone that loved you but you were not in love with.would you stay or go?
bigsmile I could go either wayflowerforyou

no photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:56 AM

Im thinking after 19 years it is not going to change.
There was 2 kids to raise but now there grown


19 years is a long time. Now the kids are grown, why not try to light the fire again from the spark that was once there?

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:58 AM

Ok if you were in a relationship with someone that loved you but you were not in love with.would you stay or go?


If I knew I could never love that person I would let them go, so they could find someone to love them
as they deserve to be loved.

no photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:59 AM

Im thinking after 19 years it is not going to change.


I've got to say, none of mine have lasted that long...
I would think, that after that long, you've probably handled a lot of issute...Try finding that spark, that brought you together first, ya never know, it just may need to be "rekindled".....:angel:

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sat 03/28/09 10:59 AM
Get outta thereshocked

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