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Topic: Don't hate me because I'm Beautiful
Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Fri 03/27/09 07:17 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? It's quarter after nine.

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Fri 03/27/09 07:18 PM
Why is it all men only want me for one thing. I realize a physical relationship is important but is that all. I can't go anywhere without men undressing me with their eyes and accousting me with their thoughts. What is up with guys today? Is a cute butt and long hair all that they care about? I have feeling you know and even a brain when I choose to use it. Maybe they did not like what they saw and were giving it that ewwww once over? I just bring it up because we assume too much when we assume that we are irresistable. All men do not find you attractive just all men do not find me attractive. I do not find all men attractive just like you do not find all men attractive. Basically you assume too much. MOOC

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Fri 03/27/09 07:20 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? I'll answer for me.......YES My answer would be yes too.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 03/27/09 07:21 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? GOOD question,,and may I just say I have asked THIS before and had MANY say "sure" but I seen different in their actions over time watching them here,wink,lol I answered a post once asking about why guys only went after the Barbie types and NEVER the over-weight ones...and MANY GUYS said they didn't just want a body they wanted a mind to,,,but ALL of them NEVER talked to the heavier ladies here on posts anyway,,So then I told them if THEY didn't care about the weight of a woman,,then THERE WOULD BE NO SINGLES LEFT ON HERE,,because the coolest and sweetest babes here are big ladies.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Fri 03/27/09 07:22 PM
Why is it all men only want me for one thing. I realize a physical relationship is important but is that all. I can't go anywhere without men undressing me with their eyes and accousting me with their thoughts. What is up with guys today? Is a cute butt and long hair all that they care about? I have feeling you know and even a brain when I choose to use it. Maybe they did not like what they saw and were giving it that ewwww once over? I just bring it up because we assume too much when we assume that we are irresistable. All men do not find you attractive just all men do not find me attractive. I do not find all men attractive just like you do not find all men attractive. Basically you assume too much. MOOC Please note I posted earlier that I was just trying to shake things up on a Friday night. I would never think this, truly.

Up2Us Joined Sat 03/15/08 Posts: 3926	Fri 03/27/09 07:22 PM Edited by Up2Us on Fri 03/27/09 07:32 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? It's quarter after nine. The time of day....

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Fri 03/27/09 07:25 PM
The most definite answer i could give seriously is, that not all men who undress you with his eyes are only after your looks. There are 3 types of men. 1. The one who undress you and want to have sex with you, period. 2. The one who undress you and want to have sex with you and more. 3. The one who doesn't undress you with his eyes because he is gay. you should be proud what you look like, but choose carefully.

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Fri 03/27/09 07:25 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? GOOD question,,and may I just say I have asked THIS before and had MANY say "sure" but I seen different in their actions over time watching them here,wink,lol I answered a post once asking about why guys only went after the Barbie types and NEVER the over-weight ones...and MANY GUYS said they didn't just want a body they wanted a mind to,,,but ALL of them NEVER talked to the heavier ladies here on posts anyway,,So then I told them if THEY didn't care about the weight of a woman,,then THERE WOULD BE NO SINGLES LEFT ON HERE,,because the coolest and sweetest babes here are big ladies. Why was I thinking you were one of the gentleman who didn't want to date heavier ladies? I must have you confused with someone else.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 03/27/09 07:59 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? GOOD question,,and may I just say I have asked THIS before and had MANY say "sure" but I seen different in their actions over time watching them here,wink,lol I answered a post once asking about why guys only went after the Barbie types and NEVER the over-weight ones...and MANY GUYS said they didn't just want a body they wanted a mind to,,,but ALL of them NEVER talked to the heavier ladies here on posts anyway,,So then I told them if THEY didn't care about the weight of a woman,,then THERE WOULD BE NO SINGLES LEFT ON HERE,,because the coolest and sweetest babes here are big ladies. Why was I thinking you were one of the gentleman who didn't want to date heavier ladies? I must have you confused with someone else. NOPE,,,thats ME,,,and it cost me many friends,,but I have never said DIFFERENT,,,I was speaking of others who say they WOULD,,,when they REALLY DON"T..or WON'T I am not a two sided talker...lol And my truth cannot lie so I am NOT into really BIG ladies...

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Fri 03/27/09 08:00 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? GOOD question,,and may I just say I have asked THIS before and had MANY say "sure" but I seen different in their actions over time watching them here,wink,lol I answered a post once asking about why guys only went after the Barbie types and NEVER the over-weight ones...and MANY GUYS said they didn't just want a body they wanted a mind to,,,but ALL of them NEVER talked to the heavier ladies here on posts anyway,,So then I told them if THEY didn't care about the weight of a woman,,then THERE WOULD BE NO SINGLES LEFT ON HERE,,because the coolest and sweetest babes here are big ladies. Why was I thinking you were one of the gentleman who didn't want to date heavier ladies? I must have you confused with someone else. NOPE,,,thats ME,,,and it cost me many friends,,but I have never said DIFFERENT,,,I was speaking of others who say they WOULD,,,when they REALLY DON"T..or WON'T I am not a two sided talker...lol And my truth cannot lie so I am NOT into really BIG ladies... Ah, Ok. Just seems odd to be advocating it then. To each his own.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 03/27/09 08:06 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? GOOD question,,and may I just say I have asked THIS before and had MANY say "sure" but I seen different in their actions over time watching them here,wink,lol I answered a post once asking about why guys only went after the Barbie types and NEVER the over-weight ones...and MANY GUYS said they didn't just want a body they wanted a mind to,,,but ALL of them NEVER talked to the heavier ladies here on posts anyway,,So then I told them if THEY didn't care about the weight of a woman,,then THERE WOULD BE NO SINGLES LEFT ON HERE,,because the coolest and sweetest babes here are big ladies. Why was I thinking you were one of the gentleman who didn't want to date heavier ladies? I must have you confused with someone else. NOPE,,,thats ME,,,and it cost me many friends,,but I have never said DIFFERENT,,,I was speaking of others who say they WOULD,,,when they REALLY DON"T..or WON'T I am not a two sided talker...lol And my truth cannot lie so I am NOT into really BIG ladies... Ah, Ok. Just seems odd to be advocating it then. To each his own. Ok First,,the truth is what I advocate. And what I said is the TRUTH on here. I LOVE my friends,and MANY are big people,,,just because I can't be attrative to them,,doesn't mean for a moment that if their a great person,,,then THEIR A GREAT PERSON..and there are so many GREAT hearts, minds, and souls in MANY BIG ladies on here.. THATS just a fact! My problems came as a boy with a BIG lady who was nuts,,,it damaged me and thats, that!! But its NOT just a shallow thing to say or be.

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 03/27/09 08:08 PM
i want to get to know the real chrissy, not just underneath, but within too....

heathersaysgobucks Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5306	Fri 03/27/09 08:08 PM Edited by heathersaysgobucks on Fri 03/27/09 08:09 PM
If a man that was NOT Attractive.... Still he was extremely caring...... Very intelligent & open minded...... Viewed woman for more then plastic barbie dolls. Who honestly wanted to get to know you for Who you are... Would YOU give that man the TIME OF DAY????? If he was NOT Attractive???? GOOD question,,and may I just say I have asked THIS before and had MANY say "sure" but I seen different in their actions over time watching them here,wink,lol I answered a post once asking about why guys only went after the Barbie types and NEVER the over-weight ones...and MANY GUYS said they didn't just want a body they wanted a mind to,,,but ALL of them NEVER talked to the heavier ladies here on posts anyway,,So then I told them if THEY didn't care about the weight of a woman,,then THERE WOULD BE NO SINGLES LEFT ON HERE,,because the coolest and sweetest babes here are big ladies. Why was I thinking you were one of the gentleman who didn't want to date heavier ladies? I must have you confused with someone else. NOPE,,,thats ME,,,and it cost me many friends,,but I have never said DIFFERENT,,,I was speaking of others who say they WOULD,,,when they REALLY DON"T..or WON'T I am not a two sided talker...lol And my truth cannot lie so I am NOT into really BIG ladies... Ah, Ok. Just seems odd to be advocating it then. To each his own. Ok First,,the truth is what I advocate. And what I said is the TRUTH on here. I LOVE my friends,and MANY are big people,,,just because I can't be attrative to them,,doesn't mean for a moment that if their a great person,,,then THEIR A GREAT PERSON..and there are so many GREAT hearts, minds, and souls in MANY BIG ladies on here.. THATS just a fact! My problems came as a boy with a BIG lady who was nuts,,,it damaged me and thats, that!! But its NOT just a shallow thing to say or be. No, not shallow at all. Just seemed odd to me. You are allowed to do as you wish! BTW....you don't strike me as a dishonest person, never meant to imply that.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Fri 03/27/09 08:10 PM
*wondering if the mods can rename this to "I'm an ass" thread.

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Fri 03/27/09 08:11 PM Edited by ladyliz1417 on Fri 03/27/09 08:13 PM
sheesh......and I can't even get a date!!!!

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Fri 03/27/09 08:11 PM
I don't think that these people read....they just talk... THIS THREAD WAS MEANT TO BE A JOKE!!!!!!!! Good God.

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 03/27/09 08:11 PM
*wondering if the mods can rename this to "I'm an ass" thread. ohh come on buck up buttercup its not all that bad

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Fri 03/27/09 08:12 PM
No, not shallow at all. Just seemed odd to me. You are allowed to do as you wish! flowerforyou BTW....you don't strike me as a dishonest person, never meant to imply that. I know,wink,, Many here talk,,and say truth but few know its real taste,wink..lol I hope you have a good weekend...

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 03/27/09 08:12 PM
I don't think that these people read....they just talk... THIS THREAD WAS MEANT TO BE A JOKE!!!!!!!! Good God. I agree with the wise and mighty krupa, loosen up and just look at the bright side of things

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Fri 03/27/09 08:12 PM
*wondering if the mods can rename this to "I'm an ass" thread. ohh come on buck up buttercup its not all that bad Juliet is one lucky girl.