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Topic: Flirting
Peccy's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:00 PM
Is it cheating?


Not on the net, in person I have a problem with it.

greeneyedgirrl's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:01 PM
I think it depends on how far it goes on the internet. In person yeah I have a major issue with it.....

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:03 PM
Good thing i don't know how to flirt whoa

no photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:03 PM
To me if you are online flirting then you are not getting what you need in your relationship.
Why put yourself on singles lines if you are not looking for something or someone else.
Be happy with what you have and leave the single sites to people actually looking

Peccy's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:03 PM

I think it depends on how far it goes on the internet. In person yeah I have a major issue with it.....
lol.......it's bits and bytes, how far can it go?

SitkaRains's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:04 PM

Is it cheating?


Not on the net, in person I have a problem with it.

I dont' have any problem with flirting I do have a problem with teasing. I believe Cheating constitutes anything I would feel uncomfortable doing infront of my partner.

I do flirt and I most likely won't quit. No man has ever had to worry about my straying if I am exclusive.:wink:

Peccy's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:04 PM
Edited by Peccy on Thu 03/26/09 11:08 PM

To me if you are online flirting then you are not getting what you need in your relationship.
Why put yourself on singles lines if you are not looking for something or someone else.
Be happy with what you have and leave the single sites to people actually looking
One word on why I come here, "Forums" Additionally, I am very happy with what I have and most people on here know this.

no photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:07 PM
Are you in a relationship?
Do you flirt?
Is you g/f or wife lonely in the bedroom while you are here?

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:07 PM
i flirt with all the women all the time ....drinker

Monier's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:07 PM
When I'm in a relationship flirting does'nt cross my mind. It would be disrespectful in any form. One character flaw that I'm glad I don't have.

Peccy's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:09 PM
Edited by Peccy on Thu 03/26/09 11:11 PM

Are you in a relationship?
Do you flirt?
Is you g/f or wife lonely in the bedroom while you are here?

No I wouldn't do that, she lives in GA, I am moving there on the 5th. And no I do not flirt, I respect her enough not to.

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:10 PM

Are you in a relationship?
Do you flirt?
Is you g/f or wife lonely in the bedroom while you are here?

nope,laugh

no photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:11 PM

When I'm in a relationship flirting does'nt cross my mind. It would be disrespectful in any form. One character flaw that I'm glad I don't have.

Thank you!

tessa68's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:13 PM
what is flirting? and how to flirt?huh huh huh

no photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:15 PM


Are you in a relationship?
Do you flirt?
Is you g/f or wife lonely in the bedroom while you are here?

No I wouldn't do that, she lives in GA, I am moving there on the 5th. And no I do not flirt, I respect her enough not to.

You are still playing on single lines when you have a girl.
There are other ways to spend your time.
Seriously I am not judging you. It's just I have been on the other end ex playing on single lines til he found something better...I am tainted lol

chevylover1965's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:16 PM
peccy still has alot of friends here.......drinker

Peccy's photo
Thu 03/26/09 11:19 PM
Edited by Peccy on Thu 03/26/09 11:20 PM
It's okay, see we met on here, that's why I continue to come back. But see all the regulars on here know I'm involved with her. And her pics are plastered all over my page. I would never do anything on the net to jeopardize the bond we have built over the past year. Believe me, I have been with many women on the net and no one can hold a candle to her.

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 03/27/09 05:51 AM

It's okay, see we met on here, that's why I continue to come back. But see all the regulars on here know I'm involved with her. And her pics are plastered all over my page. I would never do anything on the net to jeopardize the bond we have built over the past year. Believe me, I have been with many women on the net and no one can hold a candle to her.


AWW My friend... This is so sweet. I think some that are newer don't realize this isn't just a dating site but a place for friends to come and chat.
I myself don't see a problem with being on the forums and having multiple friends when in a relationship others look at this or any site strictly for dating and not interacting.

As far as flirting... There is so many definations of that word and then there is the nonverbal understanding of that word all these give it a bad name. Flirting real simple can be as innocent as saying hello, messing up someones hair a bit. squeezing an arm while smiling and chatting. Or it can go beyond and leave an open invitation.

I flirt every morning I drop into the highliner for coffee with a man that has to be all of 75 if he is a day. I smile really big, touch his shoulder, and a deep deep drawl I say Good Mornin Sug.. seeing you here just made my day. He always smiles blushes and says get out of here. It is a form of flirting and well there is no harm we both know the score.

ReddBeans's photo
Fri 03/27/09 05:52 AM
Flirtin? It's what I do shades

cityblues21's photo
Fri 03/27/09 06:09 AM
If one does it to a degree that their significant other feels it is inappropriate. Again, as in all things... communication about what is considered acceptable between two people is what should be guiding one's actions. Turn the scenario around... "would you like it if your partner were doing it?" That question alone usually is a good rule for judgement on one's own actions.

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