All I can say is men stop being so obsessed with getting laid and ruining it for the rest of us by playing your stupid games, and ladies don't be afraid of someone who maybe doesn't make quite as much as you were hoping, or dresses slightly different than what maybe you may like. Eliminate the factors that can change over time…personality doesn't change so if that's what's holding you up trust your intuition…it's never going to betray you only you can betray it. How many guys could want to just spend time with that one special person enjoying the simplified beauties in which surround us everywhere. Such as the white clouds on a beautiful day, the sun setting on the water or the horizon? Or maybe someone to just go out of their way and get you flowers every once in a while for no apparent reason. Or the person who would just stop on the side of the road and pick them themselves. Too many people lose sight of what true happiness is too often and that's why the world is the way it is, at least I believe so. Slow down to enjoy the things you need nothing but time to enjoy and it won't cost you a thing…try it once in a while…you'd be amazed at how well it works. Like I said it works both ways, just as much as men do things to women, they do it to men. Thing is it's usually the wrong man or woman to do that to. If you're going to do something dumb or play games, do it to the opposite sex who's gonna do the same and leave the rest of us to find our happiness.