Her name is M*** and i like her alot. to the point, i think she likes me but i dont know if im ready for a relationship right now, i want to tell her that but i like her alot so i dont want to hurt her feelings. i talked to one of my friends and she said that i should talk to her about just taking things slow, but im not sure if that will help. any advice?

you only get one chance. Take it or leave it.

I agree. Just take it slow. Be honest with her. Shell thank you for it. If she dosnt it wasn't worth it

If you're not ready for a relationship then you've no business getting into one. So, either make that clear from the start or leave her alone.

I agree with the others - talk to her, and be honest. Nothing worse than mixed signals, and I know I appreciate it when someone respects me enough to talk to me openly about what's going on. She'll probably feel the same.

You're a genius.

If she turns you down just tell her you dont care you think she wuz fat anyways

lol thats kinda messed up. i guess shes sensitive about her wieght. i dont really see why she very... perportioned

sh!t or get off the pot mista mista

Whatever you decide to do, if you don't want a relationship right now, let her know that and don't lead her on.

thats the confusing part. i've liked this girl for a long time and finally when i stop thinking about her, which was a really hard process, she reestablishes contact with me, and i cant get her out of my head. its not that i dont want a relationship with her its that i feel like i should get my life on the path that i want it to be on before i drag another into my life that has been messed up for so long. i really like the girl but she has so much to offer me and i have so little to offer her. and i feel like i should let her be her best instead of holding her back and introducing her to the life i have led...

Just my opinion, but....isn't that kind of her decision, too? Life is a process, and if you are always waiting for conditions to be "ideal", you can miss out on a lot of things. I still think you should talk to her, voice your concerns, and let her make an informed decision.

But, I could be wrong - after all, I'm single, so who am I to give relationship advice?

i know im not saying i know for a 100% fact she wants to be with me it just seems that way and it make me sad to think that it would be better if i wasnt with her

Hmmmm, I can understand that to a point. But, I also have to look at the flip side. What if her life were richer for being with you, regardless of the potholes the two of you might encounter? *shrug*

You're never going to know unless you talk to her :)

slip her a note after homeroom

whats home room?

The few minutes in High School before classes begin. Remember where they took attendance?

Anyway, I believe the point is, you're now supposed to be a grown up (hopefully). Man up! Talk to her. It is not rocket surgery.

I don't think they have homeroom anymore. That went out with woodshop class