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Topic: What would you do?
misstina2's photo
Wed 03/25/09 06:40 AM


flowerforyou If you went to meet someone and their appearance was not as you perceived?flowerforyou


Well if your perception of the person was off, doesn't that make it your problem not theirs?


it would only be a problem if you were basing the meeting solely on looksflowerforyou if the person didn't intend to deceive and your perception was just off then i wouldn't fault the person flowerforyou thats just meflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/25/09 08:39 AM

flowerforyou If you went to meet someone and their appearance was not as you perceived?flowerforyou
laugh I would be pissedlaugh

misstina2's photo
Wed 03/25/09 08:54 AM


flowerforyou If you went to meet someone and their appearance was not as you perceived?flowerforyou
laugh I would be pissedlaugh
shocked shocked shocked

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Wed 03/25/09 10:20 AM
Edited by durtydduck on Wed 03/25/09 10:22 AM

flowerforyou If you went to meet someone and their appearance was not as you perceived?flowerforyou


If I was intentionally deceived about their appearance? By that I mean they say things like I am 5'4 and 128 lbs and you go to meet them and they are 5' and 200 lbs...... I walk.

But if its MY perception of what I think they look like or who they are. I will stay and have a cup of coffee and get to know them to see why MY perception was so far off.

but this is under a "blind meeting" Usually I will ask for pictures or live web cam if I have any reservations about them.. Heads off any potential problems.

7z3r05's photo
Wed 03/25/09 10:21 AM

flowerforyou If you went to meet someone and their appearance was not as you perceived?flowerforyou


id try to make the best of it kupo. then not talk to them.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/25/09 01:41 PM


flowerforyou If you went to meet someone and their appearance was not as you perceived?flowerforyou


id try to make the best of it kupo. then not talk to them.
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MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 03/27/09 01:07 PM


flowerforyou If you went to meet someone and their appearance was not as you perceived?flowerforyou


If I was intentionally deceived about their appearance? By that I mean they say things like I am 5'4 and 128 lbs and you go to meet them and they are 5' and 200 lbs...... I walk.

But if its MY perception of what I think they look like or who they are. I will stay and have a cup of coffee and get to know them to see why MY perception was so far off.

but this is under a "blind meeting" Usually I will ask for pictures or live web cam if I have any reservations about them.. Heads off any potential problems.
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