Why do you send me matches that are looking for long term relationships when I'm only seeking intimate encounters? Why do you send me matches that require a photo when I don't have one? Why do you send me matches who aren't interested in some someone my age? Why do you send me matches that have nothing to do with matching up with me in any capassity? It makes no sense to me at all.

If you are talking about this happening when responding to a email message that someone is interested in meeting you on Mutual Match, the site puts others in the "line up" so the person expressing interest will not be in fear of flat out rejection.

If this is the situation that you are experiencing this in then it is actually a good thing. Usually, you would have to click on yes/maybe for all of the people in the "line up" to find out who was interested or atleast click yes/maybe on the one expressing interest. With this being said if 5 out of the 6 people in the "line up" don't fit into the parameters that you have set(assuming you have set them correctly) then it is easy to tell who the person is that is interested by a series of elimination.

Hope this helps.

If you set your filters on the following page, TheRealmOfOne, I suspect that a lot of your questions will be answered.
http://mingle2.com/inbox/filters

Also, you can thin out your Search results by changing your Search settings:
http://mingle2.com/search/
http://mingle2.com/search/preferences

Good luck!