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Topic: What do you do when...
redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Mon 03/23/09 01:47 PM
you don't feel good enough for your lover?

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Mon 03/23/09 01:49 PM
you don't feel good enough for your lover? Ask yourself why.

prisoner Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 5129	Mon 03/23/09 01:51 PM
find another lover be seeing you

Jungian101 Joined Fri 02/27/09 Posts: 517	Mon 03/23/09 01:52 PM
practice, paractice, practice.

TwoTallOne Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 16854	Mon 03/23/09 01:54 PM
you don't feel good enough for your lover? I talk about it with them ,and try to find out WHAT it is that is makingme feel not "good enough " for them ??... I am sure it will work out

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Mon 03/23/09 01:54 PM
tell yourself your the shyte and you will do whatever it takes to make them happy,, within certain limits.

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 03/23/09 01:55 PM
talk it out with said lover

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Mon 03/23/09 01:57 PM
I just feel that he deserves a woman who has a job an can do so much more for him then I can. I clean an cook an try my best to make him happy but I feel I fall short of that.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/23/09 01:58 PM
^^Britney^^

talldub Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 2629	Mon 03/23/09 01:59 PM
I just feel that he deserves a woman who has a job an can do so much more for him then I can. I clean an cook an try my best to make him happy but I feel I fall short of that. sounds like you're doing a good job of making him happy. Have you asked him how he feels?

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Mon 03/23/09 02:00 PM
Thanks Mirror I have not asked him yet, gonna ask tonight when he gets home.

fullmoonfairy Joined Mon 02/23/09 Posts: 1788	Mon 03/23/09 02:00 PM
you don't feel good enough for your lover? I ask myself "Is HE good enough for ME?" and get on with my life.

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Mon 03/23/09 02:00 PM
I'm going to go out on a limb here.. This isn't really about your lover, this is about you and your not happy with yourself.. Figure out what you would like to do what will make you a happier person and in return that will make him happy....

RareEntity Joined Mon 09/01/08 Posts: 23676	Mon 03/23/09 02:00 PM
understandable, best better to talk it out with him before your concerns end up corrupting you.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Mon 03/23/09 02:02 PM
I'm going to go out on a limb here.. This isn't really about your lover, this is about you and your not happy with yourself.. Figure out what you would like to do what will make you a happier person and in return that will make him happy.... getting a job an helping with rent an bills, I feel so useless to him! like all I am doing is adding to his stress.

Mr_Music Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 10677	Mon 03/23/09 02:05 PM
What do you do when you don't feel good enough for your lover? Ask them to have their sense of touch improved?

DdWalk90 Joined Sun 02/08/09 Posts: 662	Mon 03/23/09 02:12 PM Edited by DdWalk90 on Mon 03/23/09 02:12 PM
get up and walk away, and go watch some tv

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Mon 03/23/09 02:13 PM
I'm going to go out on a limb here.. This isn't really about your lover, this is about you and your not happy with yourself.. Figure out what you would like to do what will make you a happier person and in return that will make him happy.... getting a job an helping with rent an bills, I feel so useless to him! like all I am doing is adding to his stress. Has he said this to you or are you yourself feeling this way?

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Mon 03/23/09 02:14 PM
Find my vibrator!!!

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Mon 03/23/09 02:49 PM
Well, talk to him and ask him what you should do...If he says you are doing good enough then you are. Let him worry about the bills because getting a job now is very hard