Topic: Kinda Nervous......
Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:13 AM
If I'm lucky, my boyfriend will be able to swing by here for dinner tonight......what makes me nervous about that????? My oldest brother is the one cooking the dinner.....Tommy (my brother) has never met any of my boyfriends in the past.......When I told him that Ken (the boyfriend) will try to get here, Tommy got this evil grin on his face........Here are everybody's ages that will/might be here tonight

Me: 25
Ken: 40
Tommy: 45
Jack (mom's b/f): 52
Dawn (Tommy's) wife: 54
Momma: 62

the only ones NOT grandparents are Ken and me.....should I worry about Tommy giving Ken the 3rd degree?

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:16 AM
Probably, but who cares? It's your life right? Live it the way you want.

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:16 AM
If it's the age difference issue that you're worried about, you knew the ramifications of that when you entered the relationship. Now is not the time for trepidation. Kind-of a "you made your bed, you sleep in it" type situation. You're just gonna have to suck it up.

ReddBeans's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:16 AM
He's ur big bro, he's gonna show the guy no mercydrinker I'm sure that the BF is nervous also. Just take a deep breath and u'll get thru it. It's always abit nerve rackin when the BF finally meets the family. smokin

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:18 AM
it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.

TJN's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:21 AM
If your worried about your brothers cooking then make him taste it first. lol I wouldnt worry about Is your family close? Does your BF treat you right? If so there shouldnt be a problem.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:23 AM

it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.


Do you know what you are worried about? Is it that they might not accept him?

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:23 AM
we are a very close, if dysfunctional family.....i definitely ain't worried about Tommy's cooking......hell we begged him to cook for us one night....he's making enchiladas....drool

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:27 AM


it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.


Do you know what you are worried about? Is it that they might not accept him?



pretty much since noone's really liked any of my exes in the past

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:29 AM



it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.


Do you know what you are worried about? Is it that they might not accept him?



pretty much since noone's really liked any of my exes in the past


What's the worst that can happen by having him over for dinner?

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:34 AM




it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.


Do you know what you are worried about? Is it that they might not accept him?



pretty much since noone's really liked any of my exes in the past


What's the worst that can happen by having him over for dinner?



big brother might get a little too curious about VERY private aspects of the relationship

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:35 AM





it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.


Do you know what you are worried about? Is it that they might not accept him?



pretty much since noone's really liked any of my exes in the past


What's the worst that can happen by having him over for dinner?



big brother might get a little too curious about VERY private aspects of the relationship



How would you handle that if he does do that?

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:43 AM






it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.


Do you know what you are worried about? Is it that they might not accept him?



pretty much since noone's really liked any of my exes in the past


What's the worst that can happen by having him over for dinner?



big brother might get a little too curious about VERY private aspects of the relationship



How would you handle that if he does do that?


you mean besides telling him that's none of his business after i turned beet red?

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:48 AM







it's not the age difference i'm worried about. my ex-fiancee is 49......and Ken's alrready met Momma and her b/f since i'm currently living with them.


Do you know what you are worried about? Is it that they might not accept him?



pretty much since noone's really liked any of my exes in the past


What's the worst that can happen by having him over for dinner?



big brother might get a little too curious about VERY private aspects of the relationship



How would you handle that if he does do that?


you mean besides telling him that's none of his business after i turned beet red?


That would be embarassing if he were to ask personal questions.
I guess I am saying if you have a plan, hopefully you won't be so nervous.

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 03/23/09 07:53 AM
Thank ya Cutie......

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 03/23/09 08:01 AM

Thank ya Cutie......


Hope I helped Amberflowerforyou