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Topic: dating rules
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Sat 09/30/06 04:17 AM
how many people use the so called "rules to dating" and do you consider
these rules the problem with why people can't be real with each other?

chica42ny's photo
Sat 09/30/06 04:21 AM
Some people lies there butt off, but you tend to catch them on their
lies. they leave tracks.

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Sat 09/30/06 04:23 AM
they leave footprints in all the shit their talkin lol

SalvationJane's photo
Sat 09/30/06 03:13 PM
Dating rules...is this some sort of dating manual noone told me about?
I'm not sure I know what you're talking about. Please splain...

J

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Sat 09/30/06 04:02 PM
like therules that people seem to follow about not saying i love you
first, don't call them back right away, don't seem to into them and
trying to make them jealous an stuff like that.
it's just my opinion but that stuff kinda seems to get in the way alot.

cookieie's photo
Sat 09/30/06 04:05 PM
those are games. I'm getting old.. I dont have much time left, I
seriously dont have time for games. I got someone who strikes a nerve
with me... I'm gonna damn sure hunt his ass down and let him strike it
again.

SalvationJane's photo
Sat 09/30/06 04:08 PM
Right you Cookie...when you get to be our age, it's time to cut to the
chase. If it's there it's there, if it ain't it's taint! (sorry,)

J

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Sat 09/30/06 04:08 PM
that's what i'm sayin cookieie, i don't like easy women but if you try
to dangle me i'm gonna get tired of messin around with you. there is too
much excitement and anticipation to be had in a committed relationship
for me to mess around with someone playin hard to get.

cookieie's photo
Sat 09/30/06 04:13 PM
With my WORKBOOTS I have always believed being a good partner is being
there for him. Him knowing where I am, what I'm doing. This is the
kind stuff that builds trust... So anyway, we split up and I avoided
him like he was the devil himself until he started turning up places I'd
be. People told me to play hard to get. Let him dangle. I did that,
he came back... I'm not gonna play games with him. He obviously came
back for a reason.

SalvationJane's photo
Sat 09/30/06 04:14 PM
My motto is "go with the flow" I think some men are more uptight about
dating than women. I hate to be tense and unnatural. To top it off -
it's boring!!! I can't stand boring...ZZZZZZZZZ

J

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Sat 09/30/06 04:17 PM
i've had situations where they wanted me to dangle and i ended up
leaving because i wasn't going to wait forever and they got mad at me
and used the excuse that i must not have wanted them anyway. it's not
that, i'm just not going to wastr my time persuing someone who doesn't
seem to be interested.

chica42ny's photo
Sat 09/30/06 04:23 PM
That sucks!

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Mon 10/02/06 10:10 PM
yes it does.

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Mon 10/02/06 10:12 PM
i try not to use any "rules" i'm just myself and if it works then thats
good

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Mon 10/02/06 10:33 PM
to me that's the only way to go ken. i've never liked the idea of those
rules and have always thought that theywere a complete waste of time. i
want a woman who can grab my attention with her personality and heart,
not by ytrying to play hard to get. i'll chase her around the house all
she wants when we are together but not when were trying to figure out if
it's worth chasin lol

Sportychic's photo
Mon 10/02/06 11:35 PM
How long do you wait before you decide that there not interested or you
move?

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Tue 10/03/06 02:23 AM
for me personally it's not a time frame but a situational thing.

sheena's photo
Tue 10/03/06 03:20 AM
i don't understand the game playing it's stupid and childish. tell it
the way it is. if you don't act like your self how can you exspect the
other person to be honest wit you if your not honest wit them.

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Tue 10/03/06 03:23 AM
that's the way i feel sheena. if i'm not intereted in your personality
you sure ain't gonna get me by playin hard to get. i'll just let you
keep playin and i'll move on and go about my business lol

sheena's photo
Tue 10/03/06 03:28 AM
lol i've done that to guys at work......they end up looking stupid lol
lmao

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