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how many people use the so called "rules to dating" and do you consider
these rules the problem with why people can't be real with each other? |
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Some people lies there butt off, but you tend to catch them on their
lies. they leave tracks. |
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they leave footprints in all the shit their talkin lol
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Dating rules...is this some sort of dating manual noone told me about?
I'm not sure I know what you're talking about. Please splain... J |
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like therules that people seem to follow about not saying i love you
first, don't call them back right away, don't seem to into them and trying to make them jealous an stuff like that. it's just my opinion but that stuff kinda seems to get in the way alot. |
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those are games. I'm getting old.. I dont have much time left, I
seriously dont have time for games. I got someone who strikes a nerve with me... I'm gonna damn sure hunt his ass down and let him strike it again. |
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Right you Cookie...when you get to be our age, it's time to cut to the
chase. If it's there it's there, if it ain't it's taint! (sorry,) J |
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that's what i'm sayin cookieie, i don't like easy women but if you try
to dangle me i'm gonna get tired of messin around with you. there is too much excitement and anticipation to be had in a committed relationship for me to mess around with someone playin hard to get. |
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With my WORKBOOTS I have always believed being a good partner is being
there for him. Him knowing where I am, what I'm doing. This is the kind stuff that builds trust... So anyway, we split up and I avoided him like he was the devil himself until he started turning up places I'd be. People told me to play hard to get. Let him dangle. I did that, he came back... I'm not gonna play games with him. He obviously came back for a reason. |
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My motto is "go with the flow" I think some men are more uptight about
dating than women. I hate to be tense and unnatural. To top it off - it's boring!!! I can't stand boring...ZZZZZZZZZ J |
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i've had situations where they wanted me to dangle and i ended up
leaving because i wasn't going to wait forever and they got mad at me and used the excuse that i must not have wanted them anyway. it's not that, i'm just not going to wastr my time persuing someone who doesn't seem to be interested. |
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That sucks!
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yes it does.
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i try not to use any "rules" i'm just myself and if it works then thats
good |
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to me that's the only way to go ken. i've never liked the idea of those
rules and have always thought that theywere a complete waste of time. i want a woman who can grab my attention with her personality and heart, not by ytrying to play hard to get. i'll chase her around the house all she wants when we are together but not when were trying to figure out if it's worth chasin lol |
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How long do you wait before you decide that there not interested or you
move? |
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for me personally it's not a time frame but a situational thing.
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i don't understand the game playing it's stupid and childish. tell it
the way it is. if you don't act like your self how can you exspect the other person to be honest wit you if your not honest wit them. |
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that's the way i feel sheena. if i'm not intereted in your personality
you sure ain't gonna get me by playin hard to get. i'll just let you keep playin and i'll move on and go about my business lol |
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lol i've done that to guys at work......they end up looking stupid lol
lmao |
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