I don't know why but I somehow attract people with certain problems preventing me to get to know them better...I'm trying to have a friend, someone to to be with etc....you know just get to know you and talk to you and I'm pretty much straightforward and I don't hesitate to ask you out for a date. I'm not a sex predator, neither have any hidden thoughts or a different purpose and I don't drink blood at midnight.

The thing I'm trying goes like this:
It involves me picking you up, taking you to a restaurant, eating something, drinking something, talk about things, get to know you then that's it. I'm not 21 years old, neither 27 but more, I gone through relationships 2 of them lasting 5yrs others only 5 months. Been there done that.
If you got something else going on and just can't disconnect for one day from certain things that troubles you and somehow all I hear is how terrible is everything and gets even worse...somehow I become a target for conspiring something or "dare" to ask you out...I really don't know what to do. And then I want to talk to you, it's because I like you..not because I'm bored...

Thanks for understanding.

You will find her handsome. I know the search is frustrating but be patient.

I never got that

I like ya too...WOW...

Oh Oh Oh OH OH *raises hand* pick me! pick me!

no hon, it's not you...lol...none of the people on my friend or favorite list..

I'm just kinda making a statement...not going to put names to it.

My friends say I attract headcases

They are right

I think I get part of your point here.

Wouldn't it be nice for things to be that simple?

It REALLY should be that simple!
(the part about just wanting to talk to you because I like you)

Ah and if you were just a wee bit older.

Don't get me wrong...I understand that this is web based meeting place and you never know everything about everyone..and there are sometimes those who belong behind bars not on the street...I know this. Can't trust anyone, I understand..but just consider that not everyone is out to get you, actually 99% of the people are fairly normal..no matter what other say...that 1% yeah, we have the nutcases, no doubt.

What I'm saying is....sometimes I feel like I should scan my police record and ask the FBI for a copy to be sent to your email to make sure I am not a crazy one.

This Internet place here or anywhere, contains all walks of living..
And because people who might be DIFFERENT can come on here and live and FEEL that THEIR normal and they don't have to really be THEM..
I have witnessed MANY on here who suffer MANY problems from their weight, looks, marriage, health, and mind.
As for knowing ANYONE MORE than a friend,,then THEY must be real, and except YOU as someone they can trust to confide in..
Many,,,men and women on here TALK like they want a REAL LOVE, but in their reality they just want a short time with ya and a little fun,,then they want to move on...THATS INTERNET DATING,,,for the MOST part,,and I have over two years of time on only one site(here) to see all THAT..Good luck and be careful who you want to believe in and trust,,as THEY will hurt you very bad when they say goodbye..
LIVE, LAUGH, and LOVE....everything in between will find YOU!!!!!

Ahhh..shux...can't blame a chic for trying

well i get what your saying..but its a little extrem i mean....if your talking to people who are that much paranoid..then they shouldnt be online dateing sights to meet people.....number to....take your time....things dont have to happen right away and...try to pick the right people to talk to...it can be hard somtimes but if you pic up on a vibe that tells you this isnt the person to be talking to..dont talk to em.....honestly...somtimes its not worth the stress...

wow...... i could eat you with a spoon darlin.......i understand where ya comin from.......i'm not single tho (but i am VERY HAPPY)....

I think we all run into this from time to time, it isn't just you. People seem to not want talk they want action, if you aren't an action quickly type person "oh well" . Or they say they want to talk and then don't listen, especially if you are saying something they don't particularly want to hear. Point in case, a very dear friend, great guy, someone I care loads about, but I am not interested in dating them. They flirt outrageously with anything in skirts and that is a no go with me in a significant other. But they keep pushing for more. "sigh" and people wonder why you just talk about the weather. I have every intention of finding someone to meet and date. But it won't be after the first time I chat with them here. That's just me. But I feel for you~

1%? I'd put $5 it was more like 10 or 20%

Atlantis, I feel your pain but from the other side of the gender table.

I would love to have a nice date! A simple outing with a great guy who wants to have a conversation, a little flirting, and without any pressures of 'where is this going?"

Instead, most dates are riddled with mixed signals: come closer but now I'm pushing you away, or let's analyze this, or what are you thinking. I also hear stories of woe, ex girlfriend drama, roommate drama, work drama, etc.

UGH! I absolutlely hate those scenerios ... but .... it is what is it sometimes. I've learned to be the master of changing the subject. I am a new super hero: Deflecto Woman! dun-dunna-dun!

Alas, don't give up! I am forever hopeful, and I hope I can instill that with you and anyone else within the sound of my keyboard.

We headcases need someone too.

get your police records from the FBI to make sure your not crazy... I had to laugh I had one lady , she insisted I give her my complete ssn and date of birth and place of birth . Her son was with Military police and wanted to do an NCIC background check.. are there crazies out there? you betcha...

seems no one trusts no one..lol