Soooo I got a really really good friend that I have known for a couple years and she used to have a cush on me. I have always loved hangin with her and I do things for her I wouldent even do to the people I was dating. I got drunk the yesterday and told her that I might like her and that she could be the one I was looking for all along. We kissed and everything she recipricated the feelings. This was last night and I havent talked to her about it since. I have feelins for her and she is a great girl but im not 100% attracted to her sexually but the rest is there. Even though she is a attractive woman. She would be a great girl to me and I think we would have a great thing but I love her to death and dun wanna **** up our friendship. Soooo n e advice.

Talk to her about this. Really, make a serious talk eye to eye.

Tell her yesterday you kinda rushed things, you aren't really sure yet.

Ask her how she feels and be sure she loves you, not only as a friend. Then you gonna have to sit back and think through what you're doing. Give it time and if you just can't fall in love with her, you need to pull back and tell her. Don't cheat yourself with feelings you don't have, and don't hurt her. Tell her you two need think over this whole thing. You gotta do this, it can have devastating effects on her and even you , don't mess it up!

Trust me, i've been there and what I can tell you is, it can get really ugly.

it aint going to work, your not attracted to her...it'll be just like dating your sister..sick anology..but a correct one

roco

you owe it to her to talk to her face to face about. Do not do it over the phone or by text message. Not after she opened up her feelings to you.