Topic: Do you ever
MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:50 PM
I did that with my ex fiance. whoa

He is a wildland firefighter in San Diego -- first strike team -- and has a very dangerous job.

Every fire season my stomoch is in knots for him even though we have been broken up for 4 years.

I find myself Googling his name in the news to make sure he is not injured or worse, etc.

Last year his name came up in a search and my heart stopped. Luckily, it was only an appreication site that did a photo shoot of his fire station. I learned he got the promotion he always wanted and I enjoyed the pix very much.

I called him to say hello, wished him well, and to remind him that he will always be on mind.

He sent a text back saying 'thanks'. Considering he broke up with me via text -- this didn't surprise me. He is a jack ass but I still care for him. I'd never take him back but I care for him. flowerforyou

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:52 PM

I did that with my ex fiance. whoa

He is a wildland firefighter in San Diego -- first strike team -- and has a very dangerous job.

Every fire season my stomoch is in knots for him even though we have been broken up for 4 years.

I find myself Googling his name in the news to make sure he is not injured or worse, etc.

Last year his name came up in a search and my heart stopped. Luckily, it was only an appreication site that did a photo shoot of his fire station. I learned he got the promotion he always wanted and I enjoyed the pix very much.

I called him to say hello, wished him well, and to remind him that he will always be on mind.

He sent a text back saying 'thanks'. Considering he broke up with me via text -- this didn't surprise me. He is a jack ass but I still care for him. I'd never take him back but I care for him. flowerforyou
Seeeeeeeeee....... Ex lovers will always be on our mind

irad8you's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:52 PM
Oh hell no.

BigGlenn's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:53 PM
I got rid of my cell phone because my ex kept calling me and telling me what was on her mind. ( she had alot on her mind ). She called more after we were divorced than when we were married.

I don't even carry a beeper.

seahawks's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:53 PM

I got rid of my cell phone because my ex kept calling me and telling me what was on her mind. ( she had alot on her mind ). She called more after we were divorced than when we were married.

I don't even carry a beeper.
laugh laugh hey bro good to see ya man.!!drinker

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:54 PM

Oh hell no.
Liar Me asking the question made you think of at least one

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:55 PM

I got rid of my cell phone because my ex kept calling me and telling me what was on her mind. ( she had alot on her mind ). She called more after we were divorced than when we were married.

I don't even carry a beeper.
I didnt say the crazy ex

TBRich's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:56 PM
She texted me the other day and on my birthday, I don't respond, she is evil.

Seakolony's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:57 PM
Nope

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:57 PM

Nope
Thats a quick answer

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:58 PM
Shortly after I moved into the place I live (7 years ago), I had an ex show up at my door. She tried to fumble her way through some excuse to justify why she was there, and then she actually had the audacity to ask me if I wanted to have sex!

I said, "Absolutely!....Just not with YOU!", and I closed the door.

seahawks's photo
Thu 03/19/09 04:59 PM


Nope
Thats a quick answer
shhh she's texting me.!!!laugh laugh :tongue:

seahawks's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:00 PM

Shortly after I moved into the place I live (7 years ago), I had an ex show up at my door. She tried to fumble her way through some excuse to justify why she was there, and then she actually had the audacity to ask me if I wanted to have sex!

I said, "Absolutely!....Just not with YOU!", and I closed the door.

drinker drinker drinker laugh laugh drinker laugh

Seakolony's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:00 PM



Nope
Thats a quick answer
shhh she's texting me.!!!laugh laugh :tongue:

U wish LOL and your not my ex

talldub's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:00 PM



Think about calling your ex...And tell them they are on your mind?
I only ever drunk dialed one ex, the first woman i ever loved, and it was shortly after we'd broken up and my mother had died. It's not something i'd be inclined to do otherwise.
Your case seems ...You just needed someone to talk too
It was more than that, it was resolving some conflicts, getting some answers. Did the trick too!

Seakolony's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:01 PM


Nope
Thats a quick answer

But truthful, if you are it will pass, not saying you are though

seahawks's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:02 PM

Shortly after I moved into the place I live (7 years ago), I had an ex show up at my door. She tried to fumble her way through some excuse to justify why she was there, and then she actually had the audacity to ask me if I wanted to have sex!

I said, "Absolutely!....Just not with YOU!", and I closed the door.

"mans gotta know his limitations" eastwood voice.!!!laugh laugh laugh drinker









seahawks's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:03 PM




Nope
Thats a quick answer
shhh she's texting me.!!!laugh laugh :tongue:

U wish LOL and your not my ex
laugh laugh i tried.!!!flowerforyou

njmom05's photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:04 PM

Do the words, "HELL F*CKING NO!!!", ring any bells? huh

I have to agree...I am glad none of them bother me anymore.

no photo
Thu 03/19/09 05:04 PM

Strong willed in...Out box you?


No. Strong-willed as in knowing I'm very set in my ways, and they better not try and doing any changing to me. This is me, this is who I am. If I'm good enough to warrant getting to know in the first place, I'm good enough to be let alone with the way I am. Not too many women are willing to put up with that.


But, don't you think every relationship requires some bending, compromise, by both parties in order to be successful?