If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much?

It's only wrong if you say something about it

dang mirror..your on a question spree today huh?

Nope...window shopping is always innocent. Just don't touch or buy

totally agree

i think its basic human nature to look, at least some. its what you do about it that matters.

No hunny I know you want meeeeeeeeee............but, we both know where your HEART stands!

yeah, I need to ge this place moving again

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thats a good point

Agreed .. its human nature to gaze , even admire , BUT not touch is the key

Thats how I see it

Is it wrong? They are your feelings. There's not much one can do about that.

I, personally, am not attracted to others when I'm in love with somebody.

I don't have eyes for anyone else when in love a good looking guy would have to slap me for me to notice

Oh hell NO it's not wrong to be attracted to people while you are in a relationship.

Acting on urges and feelings is where 'wrong' would come into play.

Life is full of beauty and eye candy. I can't imagine not enjoying HOT people that I see every single day.

I am not bi or even bi-curious but I love looking at beautiful women. I visit the Suicide Girls site quite often!

I love looking at hot guys too but I would never screw up a good thing with a great guy for a moment of pleasure with someone that probably isn't worth as much.

Love, loyalty, and closeness is hard to find. Once I have it, I wouldn't let him go for all the tattooed boy toys on the beach.

Its not wrong to have those thoughts but, it is wrong to act on your feelings with them. If the person you have these feelings with is someone close to you then try to pull away from them or only see them when your signifcant other.

if i'm with someone i really love, i don't notice the others, because i'm not interested in the first place, and my attention is on the person i'm with. i guess i'm lucky that way to have a self-checking mechanism, and happiness reguardless, bit i'm single, and single to stay, and nothing's safe. not even trees or airplanes...or clouds....i'd love have sexual relations and intercourse with a cloud.