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Topic: Can you love someone who can't love themselves?
Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Thu 03/19/09 03:04 PM
Who are you smitten with? LOL nobody, just liked the face! R U sure about that? you can't make me! I bet Pats could He doesn't even LIKE me! Thats not what I heard Don't be making up stories now! hes good at making up erotic stories I'll take your word on that.

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Thu 03/19/09 03:05 PM
Who are you smitten with? LOL nobody, just liked the face! R U sure about that? you can't make me! I bet Pats could He doesn't even LIKE me! Thats not what I heard Don't be making up stories now! What makes you think I would do that? Then tell me the scoop!

Meg8771 Joined Fri 01/16/09 Posts: 5662	Thu 03/19/09 03:10 PM
I used to have what people call the "Florence Nightengale Syndrome"...Falling in love with men who had "bobo's". I would nurse them back to health, so to speak, and they would fly away to their "perfect woman". This included men who couldn't love themselves. It took a while, now I just send them to a physician...lol If they can't love themselves, how can they love me?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/19/09 03:49 PM
Who are you smitten with? LOL nobody, just liked the face! R U sure about that? you can't make me! I bet Pats could He doesn't even LIKE me! Thats not what I heard Don't be making up stories now! What makes you think I would do that? Then tell me the scoop! Send him an email

KimmiM Joined Sat 12/27/08 Posts: 1694	Thu 03/19/09 04:40 PM
Can you love someone who can't love themselves? I did it for the better part of 15 years.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 03/20/09 12:51 AM
Can you love someone who can't love themselves? I did it for the better part of 15 years.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Fri 03/20/09 11:14 AM


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heartSoul Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 6038	Sat 03/21/09 01:22 PM
Can you love someone who can't love themselves? no ............... don't waste your time if someone can't love themselves, they definitely can't love you..... Ain't No Way Aretha Franklin Ain't no way for me to love you, if you won't let me. It ain't no way for me to give you all you need, if you won't let me give all of me. I know that a woman's duty is to help and love a man, and that's the way it was planned. Oh, but how can I, how can I, how can I give you all the things I can, if you're tying both of my hands? Oh, it ain't no way (ain't no way). It ain't no way (ain't no way). It just ain't no way, baby (ain't no way). Ain't no way baby (ain't no way). It ain't no way for me to love you, if you won't let me. Stop trying to be someone you're not. How cold and cruel is a man who pay too much for what he got? And if you need me to love you, say, say you do. Oh, then baby, baby, baby don't you know that I need you. Oh, Oh, it ain't no way. I'll tell you that it ain't no way, It ain't no way. It ain't no way, baby, no. It just ain't no way. It sure ain't no way It ain't no way for me to love you, if you won't let me... (Ad lib to fade)no way...if you won't let me...ain't no way

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 03/21/09 04:01 PM
Can you love someone who can't love themselves? no ............... don't waste your time if someone can't love themselves, they definitely can't love you..... Ain't No Way Aretha Franklin Ain't no way for me to love you, if you won't let me. It ain't no way for me to give you all you need, if you won't let me give all of me. I know that a woman's duty is to help and love a man, and that's the way it was planned. Oh, but how can I, how can I, how can I give you all the things I can, if you're tying both of my hands? Oh, it ain't no way (ain't no way). It ain't no way (ain't no way). It just ain't no way, baby (ain't no way). Ain't no way baby (ain't no way). It ain't no way for me to love you, if you won't let me. Stop trying to be someone you're not. How cold and cruel is a man who pay too much for what he got? And if you need me to love you, say, say you do. Oh, then baby, baby, baby don't you know that I need you. Oh, Oh, it ain't no way. I'll tell you that it ain't no way, It ain't no way. It ain't no way, baby, no. It just ain't no way. It sure ain't no way It ain't no way for me to love you, if you won't let me... (Ad lib to fade)no way...if you won't let me...ain't no way good song

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Kaymho Joined Sat 03/21/09 Posts: 4	Sat 03/21/09 05:44 PM
I have, for some reason it did not work.

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galendgirl Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 24728	Sat 03/21/09 07:41 PM
Can you love someone who can't love themselves? The real question is...can they truly love you back?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 03/21/09 07:42 PM
Superman has some special for you Louis

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 03/21/09 08:23 PM
Can you love someone who can't love themselves? The real question is...can they truly love you back? Thats right

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sat 03/21/09 08:27 PM
Can you love someone who can't love themselves? Love someone? sure, have a HEALTHY relationship with someone? Nope. If they don't love themselves they are going to seek acceptance from everyone not just you....well in my experiences anyway.