Topic: Why Not Me
Timis76's photo
Thu 03/19/09 09:12 AM


Was married 5 years together for 8 years. tried to have a baby for 6 of them with no luck. We get separated and she get pregnant with another man on a one night stand. and through in my face. What would you do, how would you feel? oh ya and the dad is married and denies the sex, the one night stand and the child.
I am torn between Hating her guts and being happy for her.

no photo
Thu 03/19/09 09:15 AM
Maybe you might want to look at it from the perspective of karma.
So, she got pregnant with a yuck!! Something wasn't happening for the two of you. Wish her a nice, safe pregnancy and be glad you are no longer with a woman who sleeps with married liars.

tanyaann's photo
Thu 03/19/09 09:16 AM
First, maybe count your blessings that you didn't have a child in a relationship that didn't work out.

Second, did you ever go have fertility testing done to see where the complication was occuring?

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Thu 03/19/09 09:19 AM
I think you should just leave her and move on. These days woman don't know a good guy when they see one.Im also unlucky when it comes to meeting woman and I don't know why?

KennyLingus's photo
Thu 03/19/09 09:22 AM
Forgive her, walk away, and let Karma take over.



Don't Panic!