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Topic: Shortcomings
Serchin4MyRedWine Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 3483	Mon 03/16/09 02:18 PM
I think if you trade in your morals for blind love, you'll never really be happy with that person, it will all be smoke and Mirrors(no pun intended Mirror )

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Mon 03/16/09 02:18 PM
I think it all depends what the shortcomings are and if you are "equipped" to deal with any problems the shortcomings present.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Mon 03/16/09 02:20 PM
Do you think that if you are in love you should overlook someones shortcomings? i would like to think that the person i would be with would be too infatuated in me to notice my shortcomings. or perhaps when she saw them, my personality and overall lovingness would outweigh any shortcoming she may see. this has been a lesson in the ideal.

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Mon 03/16/09 02:21 PM
Either take them as they are -- or don't take them at all. Since people can't change people, there is a level of compromise when you accept someone in your life. It woudn't be fair to later try and change them or to hold something against them that was initially accepted.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/16/09 02:22 PM
depends on what their "short comings" are...suppose they are a pedophile, or murderer? still give them a pass? perhaps if the person is in prison for life

nickelback9 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 544	Mon 03/16/09 02:25 PM
Except all the short comings , unless they are going !!!!! lol do what you think is best !!!!!!

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/16/09 02:26 PM
Either take them as they are -- or don't take them at all. Since people can't change people, there is a level of compromise when you accept someone in your life. It woudn't be fair to later try and change them or to hold something against them that was initially accepted. I agree nice answer

nickelback9 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 544	Mon 03/16/09 02:27 PM
Either take them as they are -- or don't take them at all. Since people can't change people, there is a level of compromise when you accept someone in your life. It woudn't be fair to later try and change them or to hold something against them that was initially accepted. I agree nice answer Thank you

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/16/09 02:33 PM
I think if you trade in your morals for blind love, you'll never really be happy with that person, it will all be smoke and Mirrors(no pun intended Mirror )

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 03/16/09 02:40 PM
Absolutely & hopefully they will to

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/16/09 02:45 PM
Absolutely & hopefully they will to isn't that how loves supposed to be?

nickelback9 Joined Wed 03/04/09 Posts: 544	Mon 03/16/09 02:47 PM
Absolutely & hopefully they will to isn't that how loves supposed to be? Who is to say what love is ( do we know ) ????????

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 03/16/09 02:54 PM
Absolutely & hopefully they will to isn't that how loves supposed to be? You would think, maybe I just had a real bad apple

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/16/09 02:57 PM
I think it all depends what the shortcomings are and if you are "equipped" to deal with any problems the shortcomings present. good point

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/16/09 02:59 PM
Absolutely & hopefully they will to isn't that how loves supposed to be? You would think, maybe I just had a real bad apple I think you did Pats

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/16/09 03:02 PM
Absolutely & hopefully they will to isn't that how loves supposed to be? You would think, maybe I just had a real bad apple I think you did Pats

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 03/16/09 03:06 PM
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Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Mon 03/16/09 03:07 PM
Well I guess it would have to be based on the shortcoming and whether I can live with it or not. There are some shortcomings to large to overcome, and there are some so small as to be considered trivial. If it is a trivial shortcoming yes. I guess I pick my battles.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/16/09 03:08 PM
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